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How can I make others not call me a 'stupid' ?

I have aspergers and have an awkward time in social situations and in school. I know i can't act smartly like others. Due to that reason many people including my schoolmates treat me like a stupid guy, call me 'stupid'...
In my humble opinion i think the ones calling me stupid are stupider themselves, as they're constantly relating social competency with intelligence, so i don't pay a great deal of attention to them.But I wish this stops - how? How can i stop being stupid?
Any tips will be appreciated. :)

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so sorry to hear. while in school, you are around immature kids. kids are like that especially when their parents aren't worth a chit and don't teach them any better. just have to deal with it.

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ok.....
and some adults too think like that about me..
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yeah, they are dumbass adults which whom has dumbass parents that didn't teach them any better, just have to ignore them
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Really Alena nice answer! I think you should just be you because that's all we can ever be. Of course it's easy for me to say just ignore it look the other way but really that's what you need to do! Quite honestly I do believe you're correct that you probably are smarter than the ones calling you stupid for the ones that have to call anybody anything negative are just miserable in their own lives and they just have to bring everybody down around them that they think are weak! I'm not sure what grade your in but sometimes educating people about what you're dealing with may open their eyes to bully mentality and stop understanding where you're coming from and dealing with! Don't let anyone tell you your anything negative like stupid and believe them. Also if its getting bad report them to the school. Keep your head up and walk tall!

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thanks ..
i myself think i can judge people better than em so i don't let myself believe it. and it's other people too - not just students, even adults i've met. They say i'm a fool. if i try to tell em about aspergers they say 've never heard of it.
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I rather be called stupid than be as ignorant as they are.

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thanks .. lol
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you are not stupid they are probably just calling you that because they are jealous of you and find joy in making others feel worthless when they call you that laugh along say"yeah i know you wanna be me" keep this attitude up for a few days they will find its not effecting you and will leave you------personally proven helpful

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Thanks....
But i actually think they do think me stupid.even my parents,relatives.i guess they don't understand me....
Anyway thanks :)
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yeah they dont understand you because your different and be proud of it anyway dont mention it:)
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:) thanks
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dont mention it:)
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Ask them to stop, if they don't, just ignore them and they will stop. They are just jealous of you.

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ok, thanks - i'd not got notified when i got your answer :)
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Tell them to stop. Thats mean *pouting*

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