Do we break up or try again?
My boyfriend and I have been through a lot. We have been dating for a little over 3 years. A year and a half into our relationship, I moved 2 hours away for graduate school. Ever since then, things have gone down hill. He ended up having an emotional connection with this girl and admitted to having feeling for her. She is now married but he still wants to talk to her and creep on her on facebook. He just can't get over it. And now, I ask him to come see me instead of me driving back to where he lives, but he doesn't want to leave where he lives. I do live in a bigger city now, but that is definitely not a good excuse! He always picks friends over me! It is hard because we have been dating so long and also he is suppose to go with my family and I to Hawaii after Christmas. I don't know whether to try it again and end up disappointed like always or to cancel his trip and run the other way. I do love the kid to death. He says he loves me more than anything but actions speak louder than words and he hasn't proved anything. I am tired of being picked last over alcohol and friends for the last year and half. Advice?