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Why does love hurt when you think you have the perfect one you end up with a broken heart?

i have been in two relationship so far the first one was long and i thought he would be the one but he dumped. Now im with my man of three years and he keep breaking my heart but still i stand because i think he is the one but my heart cant take it but my mind want to leave but not my heart.

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GIRL THE SAME DARN THANG HAPPEND TO ME ! EXACT SAME NO LIE ! Get up move on let go , stay away from him dont talk to him 4 at leat 6 months ! Find a good guy who will treat you well , or someone he hates and go for that ! its the only way to let go .! you can do better , the truth is is we stay because we think we can't do better ! But i can you Can To hun ! Its not worth it !!!

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"The truth is we stay because we think we can't do better". So true...that and the fear of being alone. But wasn't there a movie or something called "I can do bad all by myself"? Which is also true...you should never stay with someone who makes you unhappy, even if you think you love them. You don't love them, you love the potential of what you think (or thought) they could be...do what Marie says and let him go and move on to someone worth your time, because most people in most situations don't change.
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Well said, lynnelou; and Marie 12, that's funny what you said about finding someone HE hates.
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Right lol thank you haha. People need to stand up for them self i was dragged around and hurt bye the same guy 4 3 years ! Man that just ant worth it , (: Now im fine single & Fleartty lol
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If he keeps hurting you, he's not "the one." Take your time and find someone that will treat you right. So what if you're alone for awhile? That'll give you time to step back and assess what you really want in life and in a mate. Life is too short to be with someone who treats you poorly!

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I'm sorry for what your going thro.. I went through the same thing as well... I was with my high school sweet heart for 6yrs:/ trust me it killed me inside to have him gone... Grl trust me tht was probably the best thing that could've happened to me... I kno it sucks right now and it seems like you'll never b happy but u will... And honestly tht someone will come into your life and he'll change your life forever:) jst b patient and put it in Gods hands... I wish you the best

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Sometimes you have to let what your mind is telling you over ride what you feel in your heart. Trust me I know this from exsperiance.

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My Bestfriend has been through this twice, she thought both of the guys were the one....but its gonna hurt..i dont know why, my advice is find someone better, and give it time...the pain will eventually go away. Hope all works out.

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