Would like to have gotten half. Got nada as I wanted to skip all the court drama. But half....that's what I'd shoot for. To be clear - half of what accumulated IN the relationship. I don't think his prior savings or lifestyle should be included. Fair is fair, in my mind.
let's be fear 3 year of marriage and now a divorce it depends if he cheated you should get half if you cheated none and for the 3 years you should only get 20% if he had all the money and you had none or you guys can come to a settlement
In California it's usually split down the middle. I married this wealthy woman when I was penniless and when we split up not too long after I was set for life. I rather liked the girl as well but for a seven-figure sum who wouldn't?!