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I'm a 14 year old guy who is absolutely crazy about a girl at my school. She is in my class and I have had the biggest crush on her for the past 3 years. I told her my feelings and she said she likes me back but I was so nervous that I never worked up the courage to ask her out and I'm not sure if she even likes me anymore. I've never had a crush on anybody except for her and everything she does drives me insane with love. I think about her every chance I get and I couldn't picture myself with anybody else in the world but her. How do I find out if she still likes me? Whenever her friends ask her she just says "I don't know" and if I find out she does still like me how do I ask her out? Even just looking at her makes me feel like I have a swarm of butterflies in my stomach that wants to eat me from the inside out. If she doesn't like me I will feel like the world is over and I've already cried just thinking about the possibility that she doesn't like me! She is the most popular girl at our school and she is the most flawless, drop dead gorgeous, amazing, incredible girl ever! I couldn't imagine a world without her in it.

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Enough beating around the bush. Man up and "ask her out". If she says no, then you have the answer to your question. Good luck.

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Well man, this is great, first ask her if she likes you back, if she does dude, asking her out shouldn't be hard at all for you, everything any girl wants to hear is in that paragraph you wrote. At the end you just gotta say will you be my girlfriend!

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Maybe you should tell her all the things you just said about her.

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Try talking to her. Faint heart never won fair lady.

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Tell her what you just said and btw that's a sweet thing to say man

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First have someone say this to her, "Hey, someone told me you like (your name), is that true?" If she says yes, just go right out and tell her. Also if you are willing to take the time, try being her friend before you become her boyfriend, it makes the bond grow slowly but surely. But most of all, don't be afraid to go up to her and have a decent conversion. Hope this helps and good luck.

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That was the sweetest thing I have heard in a long time. Just tell her that, and then ask her out. Or if you can sing, try serenading her. I think most girls have dreamed of being serenaded to. Try "Trouble" or "Can't Stand It" by Never Shout Never.

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If I were her, I would want to be asked out in a sweet way. Make her feel special!!!! I felt that way when I met the most amazing guy ever and he liked me back too, but he never got the chance to ask me out. Now he's not even around because we went our separate ways. Ask her before something changes and you lose the chance, trust me, living with the regret is awful. Good luck!! I hope this helped a little and everything ends up well for you!!!

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Honestly, this is so sweet. I suggest going up to her sometime during the day and asking her if she wants to hangout after school sometime. If she says yes, success! Make plans with her to do something and when you're alone, try talking to her. Maybe even work up the courage to ask her out. Hope i helped!

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I know you're nervous, but I think us girls/women like a guy who's got guts. Maybe after 3 years, she thinks by now you don't really like her that much. If I were you, I'd put in a letter all the things you just said above, ask her if she's got a little bit of time to meet with you to give her something, then give her the letter and watch her reaction as she reads it. You'll be able to tell from her face whether she wants you, too. Good luck to you. I know what it's like when you want someone that badly.

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Aww that's cute :) you could just ask her what she feels but I think a cute alternative would be to show her the paragraph you just wrote :) if she's as amazing as you make her sound she'll fall in love right then and there. Even if she doesn't like you she'll be flattered. I'm a girl and we hate waiting and waiting for the guy to tell us he likes us so just go for it. But don't tell her or show her or whatever in front of anyone else so as to save any possible embarrassment for either of you. Good luck! And don't forget to smile :)

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