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How would you feel if your friends didn't invite you to go out with them?

The people who I thought was my friends never invite me to go out with them. For example, places like games, out to dinner, shopping, and etc. They always go without me. I used to go out by myself, but it had make me feel bad that I had went out by myself. Now I have a cousin that does that, she don't invite me to go out with her, but she invite her friends. I think my friends and cousin are jealous of me because I am different from them. Would that make me feel bad or feel that I am not needed to be around?

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I feel bad.. I would say these people are not really your friends.

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Relieved.

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I would feel left out, a let down, and just a side person for them to come to when everyone else is busy.

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I wouldn't really care. but how r u "different" from them?

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It depends of how good friends you were if you were good friends than thats not good if you were just starting out as friends it's not major

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If this has become a trend (people that used to invite you but don't anymore) you must consider it is something you are doing that is putting them off. People invite others who fit in with their group and don't do these things ... insult, brag too much, are constantly negative and criticize, who always complain, people who put others down, people who embarrass them, people who use poor hygiene, people with mental health issues, people who are radically different from themselves like a rabid democrat would not continue to socialize with a ultra conservative republican. If a person is a drag or is doing something socially unacceptable, they become an outcast. Ask yourself what are you doing that might be offending them or putting them off. Don't just consider that they all are jealous. Ask yourself if you have done something to offend them. Better yet, ASK THEM. If they are true friends, and you are humble, you will get your answer.

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Obviously you are too cocky. You think they're jealous of you ??? Seriously ! Maybe they just don't like you, and hun that's okay, cause not everyone is gonna like you. Just make new friends(: good luck.

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It really depends because when you do go with them your going to feel like you're with the wrong people, or like you just don't belong there, it's just going to be all awkward. . . But in that case I'll feel like there's something about me that they don't like, effed up. . .

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maybe he is kin to rudolph !
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Lmfao shh.
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Beach Babe is right. Your attitude that you are somehow better and they are just jealous is probably why you are home alone. Come on down off your pedestal. Aren't you getting a nosebleed?

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Well if you think your all high and mighty then no one would want to be around you.

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