Advice for performance issues?
I'm a police officer and I patrol at night which is one of the things that makes being affectionate to my wife hard but also the fact that it's been 5 or 6 months since we've expressed ourselves in that type of way. I can't get work off my mind and we have 3 children 15, 17 & 19 all running around and asking questions that when we have the time I can't "Put on a good show" with my wife and I's 30th anniversary coming up I don't want to be the disappointing husband that can't focus on his wife long enough to actually amount to anything, I try really hard but like I've said these past couple of months I just can't seem to make myself rise to the occasion. Nothing is wrong down there I assure you it's mostly the stress of the job. Any advice or tips would help, thank you in advance.