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What to do if a girl hates you and you love them forever and can't live without them?

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Fade into the background. Hate is a strong emotion, although I imagine a better word would be annoyed or frustrated. But if you describe her emotion as "hate," then it's a big emotion. Those types of emotions can be short-lived. If you give her space, it helps the emotions to settle. But if she still "hates" you in a week or a month, it's time to walk away. It's not good for either of you. Focus on other things. Hopefully you'll get to the place where you can enjoy unrequited love/the memory of unrequited love. It's a bittersweet pain, not a crippling pain. You think fondly of the person and her/his best traits, and sigh because they missed out on a great relationship with you. I still like to imagine my college boyfriend (whom I broke up with) pines away after me...

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Be lonely...
forever

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You cry a little then get over it. Life goes on.

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true true
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Love me instead. JK

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i may u r pretty
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Try to prove that how much she means to you in one attempt, give your best at this, or else compromise with your feelings, it would be good for you and her too, indeed.

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get a fish and love it instead

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Try to impress them in certain ways, and express your feelings toward her. Remember- girls don't typically like some of the humor that guys do. See if this helps you

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Leave her alone please! I know how she feels. the more u'll try to tell her your feelings the furtheraway she will get and hate you even more. So back off for now and wait till she is over it you know give her some time. good luck :) (i hope your not the kind of guy i was in this position with and i still hate him cuz he tried to hard and out was annoying...whatever and i hope this helps)

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Oh and since I'm a girl take my advice cuza guy will tell you "go for it" or "tell her how you feel" NO leave her alone for now, I've been in her place ok plus I'm probably older than you ago you should listen to me OKAY
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Okay but it's mot for me it's for a friend .
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Oh shop you should tell your friend whatever i just said :)
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Okay kool
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Apologize, and show her that you re sorry and that you ve changed, and that you want to be her friend. And respect her. More than anything, respect her.

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Don't get so attached. It's seriously annoying. And if you guys aren't dating don't tell her you love her. Don't constantly say I want you to be mine and shit like that. Just talk to her as if you guys are friends. Thrust me the more you bother her with how much you like her the more she will hate you

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leave her if she hates u by nw she will never love u

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