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so this girl really likes me and I'm not sure if I like her or not :[ she texts me everyday but I almost never text her first (I did one time ...) anyway she wants me to get her something for Christmas ! I don't even get my best friend a Christmas present, just family. so if I get her something that pretty much locks me in for being interested right ? I don't really want to show her I'm not interested just yet but I'm sure I don't want her to get any ideas. what should I do ? should I give her something ? shouldn't I ? she's been trying to put me in these kind of situations where I have to reject her or go out with her but I really don't think I want to do either just yet, I mean I want to be normal friends for at least a month or so first... am I looking at this wrong ? gosh I'm so confused ...

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This girl is a manipulator, seeking gifts and giving ultimatums, this is a problem waiting to happen, tell her you don't like her style and that you're going to pass, I promise you she's nothing but trouble...

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I think your right ...
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Tell her you dont have any money and your not interested in her tell it like it is if you dont tell her you can lead her even more

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Wow that's pretty rude for her to ASK for a gift from you.
If you don't like her, I wouldn't do it. I would also let her down easy and makes sure she knows you're not interested. It sounds like you're sort of leading her on. Make sure she knows what you're intentions are and are not.
She sounds like the type of girl you'll have to be blunt with.

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Well she didn't really ask l, she just hinted really hard ... But I guess that still applies :/ Thanks ! Did you do basic training yet ?
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Nope, leaving in a week.
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Good luck ! :D
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You should get her like a iTunes card and think a long time if you DO like her.

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If you're not interested in her don't peruse her. Just be honest with her!

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Look, you'd know if you were interested or not. You are not. If you want to keep a friendship get her a lil cheap something, and a blunt explanation to go with it.

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Anyone who is asking for gift is someone who will ask for a lot of things. Don't get her a gift. Tell her that is something you only do for family. Then avoid her because she lacks manners and couth.

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yes. only as a kind gesture. let her know that you only want to take things one step at a time.

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just shut her down. it's not as complicated as you're making it. tell her she's being too clingy/needy especially for a chick you're not with or going to be with.

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That's so right I'll just tell her I want to be friends ! I wouldn't get her nothing don't let her pressure u !

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You are right on honey.
A present is not demanded.
It is given freely.
I would run from this gal.
Don't give it more time.
You don't want to be entangled with her at all.

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You're not wrong at all. Stick with your plan. If not getting her a present upsets her, then she's not a good choice for you anyway.

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