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I want to get my girlfriend pregnant

My girlfriend is 21, and im 20. She will be graduating college in a few months, and I still have one more year. We have been dating for over 2 years, and have talked about having a family for about a year now. I really want to get started on that family. Is it wrong to get her pregnant soon? I want to get married, but my brother is getting married soon. So I don't want to take away from that at all. Please help!

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Ask her to marry you first and if she says yes than wait until your brothers wedding then you can start a family AFTER you are married.

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Propose to her. Then get married a few months after your brother. Then start a family when you get out of school.

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Well, do you want to be married before you get her pregnant? maybe it'd be better to wait until your brothers has passed, and ask her to marry you first. You should make sure you both are ready for it as having a family is a big step, like getting married. If getting married goes smoothly, I think its a fine time to start a family.

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Wait. Just wait.

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You know it cost close to $2,000 a month for a baby. That is clothes, doctors, meds., school, school supplies, food, gas running the kid around. Do you have that kind of money and a great job with medical insurance and a good place to live? You need to experience life before a baby ties you down and you can't do nothing till the kid is at least 20 years old.

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Its your life man, find out when she ovulates and then you know get to work and thats pretty much it. Its not rocket science xD

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when you do the XD sign you need to capitilize the x too
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no, thats the way I do mine. I prefer that way.
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Just do it

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Why don't you be smart about it and wait till you are out of college and have a good job. It's just a thought

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listen to someone who know' take it slow nice and easy live your life it's the only one you got learn what life is really all about even wait about marrying the world is big it will still be there when you both grow up don't make the the mistake now enjoy while you can... you will have all the time in the world for..... bill's,baby,s ,pain, sorrow,lot's of mistake's,anger,sleepless night's, trying to make end's meet they are not going anywhere but then again since you did pay for your college and because you want to show your lady love you got it altogether i am sure you payed for her's also in that case in joy the wedding oh you can WAKE UP NOW TO THE REAL WORLD

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Why do you want to get her PREGNANT? Your not the One Who Must
carry the child nine months and BREAST feed it and look after it.
Be smart and finish going to college.then get a really good job you
got your whole life to be come a father don't rush it. It may back
fire and you'll be paying for it for to rest of your life. It takes lots of
money to raise a child we don't live in a FANTASY WORLD young man
wake up. Do you want someone else or welfare to raise your child you
help bring into this world? it's not fare to the child.the child will suffer for
your mistake for the rest of it's life!! Think before you do something that
can hurt your girlfriend ,yourself the rest of your life

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ErikaLyne

My boyfriend and I got pregnant while I was 20 and he was 21. He was in college, I wasn't. He ended up dropping out of college and him and I moved in together while I was about 7 months pregnant. We both had a job but it was very difficult to pay for it all. But truthfully I wish we would have gotten married first (I was actually planning our wedding during the time I got pregnant lol). I dont have any real regrets though, i absoultly love my babies! I would just wait at least until you're done with school. I hope all goes well :-)

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Wait till your thirty, live a little first.

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Think about it. She'd be done with college, home by herself with the baby while you'd be at school and have to do all your homework at home, giving you no time with the baby, not being able to help her at all. Finish college, get married, make sure you have a good job, and then try having a baby! Think about what will happen if you got her pregnant right now. She'd have no help from you and wouldn't be able to take care of the baby properly because there wouldn't be enough money.

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Don't rush into it. You have your life to live, too, before you bring another life into the mix. Stay in the relationship, let it progress, make sure you two are meant to be together, marry her, then worry about a child.

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Buy or adopt a dog. Treat it like a child. Believe me, it's a whole lot easier to leave a dog at home to go to a party or the movies, but with real children, you gotta drag them with you. Buzz killer. Really think about it.

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If she wants to have a child, let her get pregnant the way she wants to.
If she doesn't want or isn't ready to have a child, wait for a little longer until you both are GRADUATED from college (college won't be easy with a child in your arms) and you are SURE that this family is ready to begin.
The decision is for you to make, but you must be extremely careful when it comes to having a child.

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