If they are your friends, have as many as you can. More the merrier. If you are going to be sleeping with them, have as many as you like. It's all good fun. But if you are going to be in love then someone has to be the one.
At a time it's recommended to have only one. but you can't do much if you run into guys that seem great at first and end up being dickish later on, so if a relationship ends dont worry, just learn from your mistake and dont give up on finding the right one. doesn't matter how many boyfriends you go through as long as you find the right one.
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Last edited at 3:33PM on 12/27/2013
A girl/woman can have as many boyfriends as she pleases, or as many her personal lifestyle and interest will accommodate. However, this sort of way of dating or engaging in multiple relationships isn't for everyone. There are/or may be many negative life changing consequences of particular choices and that's a list of things that could go on. Anticipate how you might see yourself later in the future should you decide to form a serious dating relationship or even marriage with someone later. Some people might feel thankful they "preserved more" of themselves for that special person later, as well as a feeling of having proven to themselves they have enough self discipline to handle a long term commitment and be able to pass that reassurance on to a potential significant other. For some, this carries greater positives along with a solid foundation of maturity, appreciation, and sense of value for commitment in one's future. Never feel you deserve any less now, or later on. Because there is nothing lacking in the choices and efforts you can make now that could re-enforce the type of life you might want with someone in a future in that "special" long term serious commitment.
Over a certain period of time, there is an amount that can be unreasonable. If you are always finding yourself in relationships that aren't lasting but a month or so, then that isn't a boyfriend. Also, if you are constantly dating someone different, that will make you appear as someone who sleeps or dates around. It will make you appear desperate, or not loyal. If you mean how many at a time, just one. Having multiple at a time is just not loyal, and it's cruel and absolutely rude to the both of them. It is disrespect to yourself, as well as the guys.
You can have as much as you want. Have fun! But only one at a time. You might get a bad reputation. Don't care about what people think about you being with a lot of people. It's your life and you can do what you want with it. Don't listen to the people who don't add positivity to your life.