Suggest Weekend to remember by family life. I would recommend this to any couple about to divorce, or married or about to get married. It was an a good investment! Possible even buy them the tickets and tell them to do this before they make this choice.
It is always unfortunate and sad to have your parents divorce. But they are two separate people who came together with love and hope for continued happiness. Marriage is no guarantee of success. If that were true no one would work so hard to keep it together, it would just be there like the air we breathe. It's very hard, and not for people who aren't strong enough to weather the storms this kind of partnership can bring. in an ideal world, people go into marriage with only three reasons to ever leave, drugs and alcohol abuse, infidelity, or physical/emotional abuse. With any or all three present even those marriages should get counseling before shutting it down so they know that they did everything possible to save it. Some others just think they should give up cuz they get mad and can't forgive, it's easier to quit than work it out. I'm not sure what category your parents are in, but please know that they alone can judge what's best for them. For you, it's best to make no judgements on either side, to stay neutral , and to disallow either parent to soil your mind to their own side. He is always and forever your dad, she is the woman who gave you birth and loves you unconditionally, whether they like each other anymore or not. It has nothing to do with how they feel about you, nor does it change who they are as individuals to you. So love them both. We don't live with our parents forever, and we want them each to be happy after we go out on our own, so let them decide where they fit best into their worlds as you do in yours in the coming years. Celebrate that you have two great parents. It doesn't matter where they live.