3 months ago
Last edited at 3:17PM on 12/27/2013
my sis married at 40.. a prof athlete and model and took her that long. she cried many times waiting for the right guy.. and found him. hard is not a respecter of looks.
have a dear friend who is 50 and she is 4'10' and 250 or so. i adore her. she makes me laugh every day im around her. she works with battered woman and is a professional clown as well. she has blessed my life as much as many of my closest guy friends and will always be one of my closest.
i have dated models and barbies and the like.. i would rather spend many days with my friend mentioned herein than a minute with most of the skin deeps. too bad she has chosen a single life path with/for purpose.
i am attracted to persona so much more readily than the wrapper. perhaps i have "seen" too much not to. oh dont get me wrong. i still like the "pretty birds" as they fly in and out of my life. just doesnt make them dating material to me. give me wit and laughter, centered and inside/out stuff any day.
be YOU. BEcause that is how you will best find the who is meant to BE. you dont wanna be with a majority of men that see with their eyes no matter. and btw, it only takes one.. THE ONE. :)
Because looks do matter some, not everything, but some. Obviously, you are stating they are "more attractive." So you notice their looks first, like everyone else does. No matter what people say, looks DO play a part on if you like a person/are attracted to them.
3 months ago
Last edited at 2:27PM on 12/27/2013
Well, men are generally pretty visual creatures, so they are attracted to attractive women. But, as others have pointed out, are they happy? Likely not after the pretty wears off and you get to know the actual person. I think more attractive women are married or have been because men are too shallow to look past the attractive women to enjoy the rest of the women (the ones they don't necessarily find attractive), which is a pity for them because what is on the inside is what will endure the test of time.
Well, I assume they do simply because they are extremely stunning and who doesn't want that in a spouse. Its always been about looks, everyone knows this, but we also know that no matter how hot she is, she has to be even better inside, if we are to make her our spouse. Beauty comes both ways. Flipping that coin, the only reason her ugly ass husband is married to the hot chick, is because of his wallet, not his looks!
Men are initially attracted by good looks, but if you get to know a person, looks doesn't matter all that much. It's who they are that matters, yet some men have love at first sight, so that will lead to intimate relationships quite often.
3 months ago
Last edited at 3:41PM on 12/27/2013
People say look doesn't matter because they are scared they will look foolish if they say look matters (for example: it may affect their jobs ) They have husbands because they are attractive I guess ..'but that's not an only reason .. You may be attractive but dumb lol
They may have a husband, but are they happy? We are all the same in that regard... No matter your looks, we all long for acceptance despite the uglies inside. If you reflect on appearance too much, that insecurity shows on the outside. Better to find things that make you unique. What are you good at? Focus on those and you become attractive. Bam :-)