Well you could do multiple things. 1. You could be real about this and tell her that you are pregnate softly. 2. You could get an abortion. 3. You could team up with your bf and get a place of your own. Doing a abortion is not bad. There is a pill that can get rid of the baby and make you 10% smarter. And remember people that don't use birth countrol has a name, it's called " MAMA"
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I was in your same situation at one time and I sat my mom down and just told her the truth. She didn't like it but after a little while she came around and was very supportive. All I can say is just be completely honest with her and let her digest the whole situation and then go from there. Tell her what you would like to happen and ask her her opinion and hopefully everything will work out. DON"T let her find out from someone else!
Try to tell your parents,what is happening to you is just part of beeing a human,is part of life,try to make them understand by showing them photos of the living baby inside of you to see if that hepls my child : )
Tell her. She's your Mom. This is more then you can handle on your own. Yes she might be upset at first but I bet she'll come around. This is her grandchild you're carrying And if you decide to not keep the baby please consider adoption over abortion. But do tell her. Don't let her find out from someone else.
Please bypass Rickyb210's answer. An abortion will mess with your head for the rest of your life. I do not care what others tell you, the guilt will always be with you. It also makes a difference how old you are. Yes, everybody's life is now changed. Tell your mother and seriously think about not making a second mistake by marrying your former boyfriend. This will not get him off the hook for child support. I wish you the best. Eat well, stay on top of things with your medical needs, and stay strong. If you are still in school, do not drop out because you have new responsibilities and others will come forward to assist.
Tell mom, then stay very healthy, no booze, smoking, drugs etc., and work to put the baby up for adoption the second it is born. The adopting parents should pay all medical bills. You will go through life knowing that you did not kill a baby, and gave joy to a couple who could not have baby. Finally, seek religious friends for help, and seriously attend a church and seek counseling for a minimum of six weeks.
When I was 14, my step-sister (16 at the time) hid her pregnancy until she was 5 months along. I told my Dad & he told her Mom. It was not pleasant, everyone was upset, but that passed and we all dealt with it. Denise gave the baby to adoptive parents who were very grateful as they could not have children of their own. She got pregnant the next year and had an abortion. She is now in her mid 40's and her life is settled, but it's the abortion she regrets and cries over still. She is proud of the choice to give that first baby for adoption, but the abortion will haunt her for the rest of her life.
Tell your Mom. She will find out eventually. You were old enough to decide to have sex, then you are old enough to make the right decision for the health & happiness of your baby.
do anything BUT abort it please, its a person too. your mother couldv'e aborted you, but she didn't she loves you nno matter what. you should trust your mother and your heart. talk to God and He will help.