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How Do I Get My Step-Mom To Like Me, After I Said I Hated Her?

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First apologize to her. It is a tough time for both of you. Sit down with her and discuss your issues together. Start slow. Remember because she is married to your dad, you both need to work on building some sort of relationship. She's not trying to be your mom. Find some common between you both. Good luck.

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Put in a big effort to show you do not hate her. And apologize for saying that.

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take her somewhere nice and so her how much you do love her

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Yall need to have a one on one talk, of course say sorry about what was said. Hope it all works out

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do something nice for her or give her a gift that will make her extremely happy or tell her that you dont hate her those angry words

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first of all, you shouldnt hate anyone...and what you should do is sit her down and tell her that youre sorry and tell her what she did to make you mad enough to say that you hated her in the first place...but dont be rude to her when you say it

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Give her a rose and a big hug and say you're sorry. If you love her this is a good time to say so. If not, then don't say you do. Stop at the apology part and smile.

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First you need to apolgize to her for what you said. Then you need to try to win her respect back. Buy her stuff spend time with her make her laugh tell her how much you enjoy her coming into your life. Tell her that you didnt mean it when you said you hate her and that you was just mad.

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Really you should have to try to make her like you. A simple apology should suffice.

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I meant shouldn't have to try o make her like you,
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i dont know. but i just dont bring it up again

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You better apologize, those are some harsh words!!!!

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Do something nice for her and apologize

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give her some flowers and apologize and ask for forgiveness. is one way

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what would it take if YOU were the step mom? it's not fun to admit when you were wrong

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Apologize for saying that, tell her that you were just annoyed that day and didn't mean it at all.
Then, be really nice to her and try hard to help her as much as you can. Keep begging forgiveness and tell her you love her a LOT.

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