Do not ever deceive your parents. Not a good plan...runup is unhelping you. Ask her to join your family in a family event. Reject??? How about walking at the mall with her??? Reject again. Well, it is time to have a family discussion with mom and pop and ask if there is any way they can think would be acceptable for you to see her and do this. do not go off in a corner that would raise suspicion. Do not even hold hands and those beautiful Angelina Jolie lips of her are off limits until mom and dad are confident in their sons behavior. Life is the pits sometimes. Rebellion will make you the loser.