do you have kids with your wife if yes you need to think about your family. divorces have a big impact on your kids.on the other hand if you dont have kids well just talk to your wife to settle your situation.
Since you've already married that wife of yours, try sticking with her. Otherwise you have a greater risk of losing both if they realize you've been hanging out with others. Maybe (just my advice) you should focus a little on strengthening your relationship with your wife and living a good life with her.
Your married. Why would you even think about ruining what you have to be with someone who is just an infatuation. You probably feel like your stuck and when something new comes along you want it, you like the attention and the feelings. Truth is you had that all with you wife at one point. Try to get that back instead of going outside your marriage.
2 years ago
Last edited at 11:57AM on 12/12/2011
You're married-end of the issue. What you SHOULD do is tell your wife that you no longer love her and want a divorce, & I hope she sticks it top you when you do that! You aren't FREE to act like a single, horny man-got that? Tell us-would you go for your wife spreading the goodies around? No? Talk about a double standard! Males like you should be ashamed to call themselves "men".
Hello! You are MARRIED! If you REALLY loved your wife you wouldn't have even had to ask this! I think you know the answer. That is cheating. If you have feelings for her , GET AWAY from her!!!!!!because she is just trying to pull you and your wife apart!
Seriously. If you were mature enough to get married, stay in your marriage. Communicate what you are lacking in your marriage (thats making you become tempted). Communication is key to a healthy relationship. Once you have tried everything you can for your marriage to work, then seek out. Until then, your wife deserves you 100%. In order for your marriage to work, you have to completely stop speaking with this other girl. (Who is obviously a homewrecker and if she's doing it with you, she'll probably do it to you).
Whatever you do, DO NOT LET HER SPEND THE NIGHT! Cherishnship you have with your wife. If you love your wife, be faithfultand by her. I know from experience, and you should back and look in on your relationship and think, "Am i happy with her? and Is it mutual" don't do anything you might regret because it will turn out completely worthless in the end.
Then, you do not love her. You've already made a commitment to someone whom you've already claimed to love. You've already established your relationship; why risk it? What you have is actually called lust. It too will pass with patience. Stay true to your first love!
Here is a suggestion that I did not see posted, as your wife if she would be interested in a threesome. "Manage et trois" is not great for nothing. If she does not go for it, you have to decide what is right for you and your wife. You made the commitment and you have to decide whether or not you can live with it. Either way you need to communicate with your wife. What if she feels that everything is fine in your relationship or worse she feels the same way you do? Think before you act. Do some positive soul searching and see what you should do by what you feel is right for you and your wife. You are not in this decision alone.