How can I be tougher?
Ok, so I try not to care but it just doesn't work. I'm kinda cissy. Like I wanna be tougher.. Right now... Me and this girl like each other. We used to talk before and I was tougher than I am now, but when I started liking her I turned into such a girl and women hate that... How can I be tougher emotionally and physically? I don't wanna be tough just for he I wanna be tough for myself. I've done martial arts my whole life and still doing it ( that's 10 years since I'm 14) and I work out in my room like almost everyday. The problem is that I'm too soft. I don't wanna be this soft. I wanna be tough and manly. Like I don't wanna be too much of an asshole but just... Yeah u get it. Like if I like someone and they'll tell me they don't like me all of the sudden I'll get way too hurt than I should. I just wanna not care. Like.. Yeah u get the point, please help meet. Thanks