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ok so I like this girl and I asked her out a while ago and she said "I don't know" and she also said that she was confused in who she likes so I was like "oh we'll she doesn't like me... ok then :(" but I was told today that she does like me :) lol but it doesn't seem like itSo why would she say that she doesn't know who she likes or say yes or no if she likes me?

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Did she say she likes you? You should go by what the actual person you are interested in says.

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He/she is right.
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im in this situation, sorta. My guy friend asked me if i liked him but i was genuinely confused, I like him but we're really close friends and i dont want to ruin this great thing we have already. Later i found out that he got a girlfriend and i felt crappy, but oh well. If she says she likes you she does, just give her time to think and just go on as you normally would around her

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If she says she doesn't know, she might have a boyfriend or be interested in someone else. Or maybe she's just really nervous. I suggest finding a document online on what this-or-that that a girl does means; you might be reading until you're sixty, though.

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Maybe she likes you and someone else and can't decide who she likes more and wants to date or if she wants to date. Ask her out and if she says she isn't sure she wants to go out or likes someone else then you can still be friends but find a different date.

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Coming from a girl herself, sometimes we can get stuck in between guys, and if one of the guys that we like asks us out we get confused on what to do, because part of us wants to say yes but the other is dwelling on the other person that we like. I personally have gone through this faze, and while it may seem annoying and stupid, it's actually very difficult for the girl to deal with. Liking someone is hard enough, right? Well, imagine that x2 and trying to choose between the two people. And if it was a girl friend of hers that told you, there is a 50/50 chance that they are telling the truth, because girls do like to gossip and make up stories, but they also usually tell each other everything if they're close, and sometimes we can't keep our mouths shut. Hope this helps. :D

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It was actually a guy friend if mine and she told him directly and he told me that she likes me so I was just kinda confused. But thanks for the help.(PS I have been in that situation before with this girl and another one obviously I pick her lol)
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"Confused" is the great excuse. It's frustrating to deal with. What usually happens is she runs into somebody else and becomes "unconfused". That, of course, leaves YOU out in the cold. Walk away, you don't deserve to be treated like a fool by someone who ultimately is unworthy of your attention.

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