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My girlfriend of two years has pictures on her phone of the guy she went out with should I be worried She's not over him?

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Please tell me you didn't go through her phone without her permission?
If she has let you see this, it's no big deal, if she didn't, you are the one with the issues, you need to figure out if this is something you can live with, if not.....move on.

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Oooh!! You're so smart!! I didn't even catch that!! Great answer!!
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Thanks girlfriend!!! ;)
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Yes, do be worried..

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Yeah I'd probably nip that in the bud. There's no reason for it. How would she react if the tables were turned?

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Yah

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Yes absolutely. If a girl has any piece of clothing, jewelry or picture of an ex, she is not over him no matter what she says. It will go from "I'm over him" to "We only hung out for a little bit." to "I think we need to talk, i still love my ex." Trust me, its not a good thing. Take it from me, experience brutha. 2 years is a long time to just throw it away, so just talk to her about it, lightly bring it up though, if you just jump into it, she will think you don't trust her. Maybe she's just doing it for attention from you, so just talk to her about it. Best of Luck!

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If its been two years, I wouldn't worry too much about it, you could always ask her to get rid of them!

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Two years? How is your relationship? Both happy?Just pictures? No buddies, communication?
He is her past, pictures are ok, it's says a lot about her, they ended on good terms. It's over, you are her BF.
If it really bothers you tell her.
You might look insecure, no reason.
Good luck!

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Good insight!
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Thanks T!
I was on the fence with this, I'm sure it's annoying, but two years in, all is ok. He shouldn't worry. : )
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The relationship seems to me good seems like she's happy I'm happy I love her very much...
She left me for him for about two months a year ago she still talks to him every once in a while and she wants to meet up with him....She says that they're just friends and nothing in between them anymore
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Wait .. She broke up with you and went back to him.. Then back to you?
She wants to keep in touch and stay friends and... Hang out??
This worries me, not the pic!!
I don't know her so I can only generalize but... She really shouldn't be making you uncomfortable ..,
Could there be more here?
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T_R_M

Believe she aint cheating or whatever.

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they are on her phone so she can always see them so yes. if she had then on an old comp or printed out in an old box under her bed it's a diff story

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If we deleted pictures of all of our past relationships, we would end up being old people with nothing to show from out social past except what's inside our heads. If she hasn't made contact with him, don't give it a second thought.

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That's a problem should talks with him once in a while and she claims that they are just friends and does nothing in between the many more
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Then believe her. If she claims they're just friends, trust her. She might still have feelings for him deep down but she's not with him, she's with you. After all, its normal to stay friends with your exes.
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Life is 90 years long and filled with people who come and go, realistically the pictures reflect a moment in her life that was special at the time. Since it's only a memory (albeit With a view,) it's not threatening unless she decides to go backwards( which rarely works) however the fact that you might be verbally against it is probably more of a threat since she is making memories and viewing you at the moment. You want to be sure her view of you is one of desire which means confidence and strength in who you are and being skilled at making her feel better to be with you than some old memory. the better you get at being better than him the quicker her memory and the pictures will fade away into history.

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Thanks a lot I really appreciate it just one problem she still talks to him every once in a while and she claims that they just friends And it's hard for me because I really love her I don't know what to do...
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Do nothing just be the best boyfriend she's with you not him.
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yes, you should be worried.

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well I would

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Probably so..

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No I don't think you should be. I had pictures of me and an ex on my phone, facebook, instagtam, etc. It's just a memory. You can look back on your past whenever you want and see how different life is now. It doesn't mean she's not over him. She's been with you for two years, sounds like she's over it to me.

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I would I know this one girl and she still talks to her ex and even her boyfriends ex

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