Do you want to break up because people are picking on you or because he is not the right person for you? If it is the second, tell him face to face that you are sorry but he is not what your are looking for.
If it is the first one, you have two choices. Grow a backbone and quit letting what others think rule your life. It is your life and your happiness not theirs and realize their opinion means diddlysquat. Or you can cave into the peer pressure of idiots and break up with him. If that is the one you choose, great, because your boyfriend would deserve to have someone who would think of him before what some judgmental idiot thinks.
You are dating a guy you must not like very much because you are going to throw him under the bus for your popularity with others ? That says that he's probably a nice guy and you are going to show yourself as not so nice. That's not fair treatment . Why did you date him in the first place? Pity? you were bored and needed to use someone. ? Break up because he probably deserves a girl who is more confident in both him and herself .
3 months ago
Last edited at 9:33PM on 1/10/2014
Just because other people think negative of him don't leave him. What other people say doesn't matter. What matters is that you love & like that person who cares if they think he is a nerd or what they think. They aren't with him you are :) So it is none of their business either. If your happy stay (: That is what id do . . .
If your breaking up with him only because people are making fun of you for going out with him, you shouldn't do that. Who cares what everyone else says or thinks? The only thing that matters is whether or not you actually LIKE this guy.
3 months ago
Last edited at 2:47AM on 1/12/2014
Trust me honey, there are lot of jerks out there who will treat you badly. If this guy is nice, treats you well, and genuinely likes you, and you genuinely like him - then stay with him; because you might regret it later if you break up for petty reasons. If on the other hand you feel like you're wants and needs in a partner are changing then I suppose the ball is in your court to find someone that meets those needs. Highschool is only a couple of years out of your entire life, and those judgemental people who tease you now will not be a part of your life after highschool ends.
Don't leave him because people are making fun of you. If you truly like him then don't leave him. Those people shouldn't be making fun of you anyways, the outside doesn't even matte, its the inside that counts.
Do what makes you happy. No one else should tell you how to run your life. Just keep Your head up. And smile bright to show everyone that wants to open there mouth and talk all kinds of mess. that your happy and don't need there approval.
It'd be so shallow if you dumped him because of what others say. If you like him, and he likes you back, then there's no problem. Duh. Anyways, just remember, nerds are cool--someday, those people that make fun of him will work for him one day.
Dont break up with him just because of what other people think.Who cares what other people think..? Cause I really dont give a shiit.People can hate me or they can love me i dont really care.(: but if you like him i wouldnt break up with him. If you dont like then i would break up with him (: have fun with your relationship.!!
Why would you care what other people think? Did you get with him cause you felt bad? Honestly, that is quite rude. I mean, don't break up with him because you are being made fun of. There was a reason you got together with him in the first place, isn't there? Don't mind other people. It just shows you have a heart.
Well that would be stupid, have you not ever seen a movie? Isn't that the moral in a bunch of movies is to not let others have an impact on who you date if they aren't popular? The only factor should be if you like him, don't let others have a say because he's 'not up to their standards'. If you're the type to break up with him because he's not popular enough, then he can be doing/deserves much much better and might be better off with a girl who actually deserves him.
You hold stay with him I broke up with a guy that was really nerdy and not the best looking but when I stepped back and looked at what I lost I relied that he had the most amazing personality yeah I'm not the best looking other but he still likes me for me and I liked him for him until this hot boy asked me out and I said no cuz I was dateing the other guy so he just looked at me and said you can do better way better so yeah STAY with him!!!!