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Ok so i keep getting made fun of at school cuz im dating this kinda nerdy guy. I kinda want to break up, what should i do?

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Don't leave him just because others have a problem, how shallow.

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date him, if you really like him it shouldn't matter what other people think

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if you do wanna break up then you should just say so

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Do you want to break up because people are picking on you or because he is not the right person for you? If it is the second, tell him face to face that you are sorry but he is not what your are looking for.

If it is the first one, you have two choices. Grow a backbone and quit letting what others think rule your life. It is your life and your happiness not theirs and realize their opinion means diddlysquat. Or you can cave into the peer pressure of idiots and break up with him. If that is the one you choose, great, because your boyfriend would deserve to have someone who would think of him before what some judgmental idiot thinks.

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WOW, just, WOW
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your right, but WOW. just, WOW.
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i am SPEACHLESS
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Stay out of the water cos you're drowning i the shallows.

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Tell him what is going on, and discuss with him what you two should do. if he loves you he will understand.

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well, its easy. ive answered questions similar to this SOOOO many times, and i say this every time: if you love him,don't leave him. your heart is yours, no one elses.

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I mean you must not like him if you want to brake up with him all because people are making fun of you. So maybe you should

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You are dating a guy you must not like very much because you are going to throw him under the bus for your popularity with others ? That says that he's probably a nice guy and you are going to show yourself as not so nice. That's not fair treatment . Why did you date him in the first place? Pity? you were bored and needed to use someone. ? Break up because he probably deserves a girl who is more confident in both him and herself .

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Just because other people think negative of him don't leave him. What other people say doesn't matter. What matters is that you love & like that person who cares if they think he is a nerd or what they think. They aren't with him you are :) So it is none of their business either. If your happy stay (: That is what id do . . .

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Just remember what goes around comes around.

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You look nerdy in your pic so don't judge

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you just judged..
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and i the heck do you say they look nerdy when they're profile picture isn't even them?? Yeah you look really weird with that shirt on... oh wait, you are a soccer ball.
See what I mean, dude?
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Do what you feel is right. I'd break up with him but that's cause I'm kinda shallow

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If your breaking up with him only because people are making fun of you for going out with him, you shouldn't do that. Who cares what everyone else says or thinks? The only thing that matters is whether or not you actually LIKE this guy.

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Trust me honey, there are lot of jerks out there who will treat you badly. If this guy is nice, treats you well, and genuinely likes you, and you genuinely like him - then stay with him; because you might regret it later if you break up for petty reasons. If on the other hand you feel like you're wants and needs in a partner are changing then I suppose the ball is in your court to find someone that meets those needs. Highschool is only a couple of years out of your entire life, and those judgemental people who tease you now will not be a part of your life after highschool ends.

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Don't leave him because people are making fun of you. If you truly like him then don't leave him. Those people shouldn't be making fun of you anyways, the outside doesn't even matte, its the inside that counts.

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Do what makes you happy. No one else should tell you how to run your life. Just keep Your head up. And smile bright to show everyone that wants to open there mouth and talk all kinds of mess. that your happy and don't need there approval.

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It'd be so shallow if you dumped him because of what others say. If you like him, and he likes you back, then there's no problem. Duh. Anyways, just remember, nerds are cool--someday, those people that make fun of him will work for him one day.

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if u like him keep dating and ignor the other people if u dont like hime break up

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Dont break up with him just because of what other people think.Who cares what other people think..? Cause I really dont give a shiit.People can hate me or they can love me i dont really care.(: but if you like him i wouldnt break up with him. If you dont like then i would break up with him (: have fun with your relationship.!!

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If you're happy with him then don't change that. If you really care of what other people think about you guys then that's not right.

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nerds are the best to have around when you need them

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Why would you care what other people think? Did you get with him cause you felt bad? Honestly, that is quite rude. I mean, don't break up with him because you are being made fun of. There was a reason you got together with him in the first place, isn't there? Don't mind other people. It just shows you have a heart.

Stay positive-Kaitlyn.

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Who cares what other people think ? As long as you like him, don't give a damn about what others think of him. Or, if you're that persistent, just keep dating in secret.

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Yeah but think about the guy, how would you feel if you were in a relationship and you had to keep it a secret because your girlfriend was embarrassed of you. If she can't stand up for the guy she's with, he deserves better.
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I think your guy should do something to get rid of a girl like you.

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if your actually going to break up with him just because of other peoples opinions than do it quick and don't sling him along

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Well that would be stupid, have you not ever seen a movie? Isn't that the moral in a bunch of movies is to not let others have an impact on who you date if they aren't popular? The only factor should be if you like him, don't let others have a say because he's 'not up to their standards'. If you're the type to break up with him because he's not popular enough, then he can be doing/deserves much much better and might be better off with a girl who actually deserves him.

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You hold stay with him I broke up with a guy that was really nerdy and not the best looking but when I stepped back and looked at what I lost I relied that he had the most amazing personality yeah I'm not the best looking other but he still likes me for me and I liked him for him until this hot boy asked me out and I said no cuz I was dateing the other guy so he just looked at me and said you can do better way better so yeah STAY with him!!!!

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If you like him then stay. If you don't like him then break up with him. Don't just break up with him because of stupid people.

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You can not do this just because of others keep your relation don't have break up because of some stupid people

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Don't break up with him if you like him! Those other people are jerks! Hang in there

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Don't break up with him if you like him. The people at your school don't matter because it's not their relationship... It's your's.

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you should not be embarrassed by your nerdy boyfriend. that is shallow.

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Do what makes you happy. If you truly believe you'll be happier without him, fine. But if you actually like him, you shouldn't just leave him because he's nerdy. Nerds are epic!

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dont leve him just because hes nerdy do what makes you happy if you love him you will stay with him!!!!! but that's just my opinion!!

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