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chillwiththat: 2 years ago

How do i tell my good friend that i care about her?

Okay, so yeah i recently found myself having feelings for one of my really good friends. i used to feel this was about a year ago and at the moment the feeling was mutual. nothing ever really happened and we both just moved on rather smoothly. however the other day i found myself thinking about her alot and i recently discovered that i do like her very much. i want to tell her how i feel and i think i'll say somehting like this

"over the past few days i've realized alot of things about myself (i had a life changing weekend). i really care for you alot ... you make me feel good about myself ... i didnt chose to have these feelings, these kind of things just happen ... i hope things dont get weird between us..."

Yup pretty standard. i would like to know what you girls think about this. good idea? bad idea? any words of advice?

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poppag: 2 years ago

Well sweetie, I think that what you said and the way that you put it will make her feel very special and I don't think it is a bad idea at all! If you really feel this way and you say you have felt this way before and you all just moved on, don't let her get away this time. If you wait too long you may regret it if someone else comes along in her life and she takes that person because she didn't think you were gonna speak up! Go for it!

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wendycris74: 2 years ago via iPhone

I add if she doesn't feel the same way now dont allow it to put space in your closeness. If she is a good friend she may already know how you feel! Good luck!!!

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SuperStoked: 2 years ago

Go for it, sounds like a good idea and nice choice of words.

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mgmarx: 2 years ago via iPhone

As Harry said "men and women can't be friends. ". Let her know

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mild2463: 2 years ago | Last edited at 10:55PM on 2/13/2011

Good Idea! maybe she feels th same way and don't know how to tell you. So tell her before you let her get away again.

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cholly00: 2 years ago

Don't make a big deal out of it. Maybe a call to ask how you're doing: Friendly, not pushy, maybe ask if your friend would like to do something specific sometime, etc. You'll know the reaction by the replies.
To have a friend, be a friend.

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