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my gf asked me to never call her on her mobile unless she asks me too cuz of her parents. we chat using kik app but she only checks it after 12 am. i was out on a tv report & i wanted to let her know the report was gonna be shown by 11 pm i was afraid she'd miss it so i couldn't kik her & i called she hung up on me and tge she broke up with me idk what to do ?

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well its understandable what u did..but she also said don't call her..and honestly if a girl is so dead set on somethin which she must be for her not wanting u to call.at the end of the day its not worth it .seems like to much trouble .u really can't be in a fullfilling relationship if u can't call her anytime u want and its only pretty much texting and even that's controlled..its only been 6months just move on .and if she comes around.just be friends or something....u did what any person wanting a real relationship wouldve done .the promblem is shes doesn't want or can't really be in one..

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Ya!
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Well do u think we can be together again if i give her a week or something cuz i really want her and i love her soooooooo much she's my first gf too and i really wanna keep this relation
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everyones first relationship is always hard to let go..like i said it seems to me atleast its just to much ...u have me thinking of my first relationship ."love"
lol been a long time..well my experience was kinda the same i couldn't call her cause of her dad .we couldn't go out...we still did when her other family could sneak us. .she ended up breaking up with me .for a reason i never found out .but if i remember correctly she started going out like a week after and she was pregnant like a few months later..so anyways my advice would be be friends for now show her u care without the whole bf gf labels...then when shes ready and or able to be in a relationship .then u guys try .not before then though..but i have a feeling ur gonna go for it anyways..so i don't know how to address that but good luck anyways
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Hey man we r now talking as friends she says she misses me & loves me but still not ready for a relation now we talk normally without babe thing xD what do u think ???
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find a new gf

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Totally find a new girlfriend

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Sound like she's hiding something. Broke up over that, c'mon. A little extreme.

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Yeah, girls are like that. When they say don't do something, don't do it. See, this is what happens. Give her time. If she really cares about you, she'll get over it.

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Im planning on making a surprise meeting with her on friday with a perfect apology this is our 6th month together do u think its enough time ???
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Umm, I wouldn't surprise her. Give her the few days then call her.
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No surprise. You already did that.
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Haha, yup PJ, pretty much.
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Ok im giving her till the end of this week she has tuition on friday so ill meet her there isnt that right ??
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You know, must, really any way you do it, as long as you apologize. If she doesn't except it, let it alone until she comes around. Most girls get annoyed when boys are 'hanging on to the hem of her skirt'. Good luck to you. Hope it all works out. :)
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she asked you not to call her but you did.she broke up with you because you didn't respect her wish. I don't know what to tell you. it was a big deal to her. but sounds like a petty reason to break up. maybe was an excuse. move on.

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I called cuz she would check the kik after the show was gonna be over the only way was that i didnt call just to tease her or something
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Petty is right.
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I'm sorry mustafa. try to talk to her and iron things out.
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You really should move on this is what girls call that long distant relationship and she would not have be a good girl friend because something this big would really be stupid for her i mean her bf is on TV !!

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She is cheat and does not her other bf to see

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You have a cyber relationship. If you can't really see or at least speak with her when you have something important to share, you don't really have a GF, or a friend.
She's respecting parents, it doesn't sound like she has much choice in this, move on.

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Sorry man, but she sounds kinda weird, super controlling & manipulative.

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or controlled by parents.. both
but you are likely right.. as per usual :)
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I'm wondering if she's cheating....
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Try to find a girl who let's you call her

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