How do I get along & make peace with my little sister?
I'm 15 & my sister Rachel is 11. We have never really gotten along. Mainly because when she was born I was very jealous. I have an older brother, 17, & an older half sister, 24, so I felt I would be pushed to the side in favor of her. I was always very mean to her & never gave her attention. After my mom died I thought our relationship was getting better but we're back fighting again. My sister is alot older & not around much. My dad works alot. Our brother tries to help us but it's not fair to him to choose sides when we fight becasue he has a good relationship with us both. My dad & brother are there for her to talk to & if she has a problem but I want to be there for her too. I want to be her friend, someone else she can turn to with a problem she doesnt feel comfortable turning to anyone else, I want to be her big sister. I'm grateful to have a close relationship with my brother & I want one with my sister also. I know she has a big grudge about how awful I treated her & I'm very sorry & regret it. It's easy to say "just talk to her" But she won't listen & doesnt trust me.