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kbutton: 2 years ago

How do you let a guy know you are interested in him without asking him out?

The guy I buy my meat and fish from seems like he flirts with me whenever I go into his store. He always gets me the fresh stuff from the back or tells me when the next delivery is coming. He also brings my meat to me out around the counter instead of just passing it across to me. He doesn't wear a ring, but most meat people don't wear them at work. I'd really like to let him know I'm interested.
What should I do? I really can't keep buying so much meat!

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alreena: 2 years ago

If you want to let a guy know you are interested in him without asking him out, flirt with him. Tell him he looks nice. Try spending a little longer time around him and see if the conversation changes from business to personal. Also, you can ask him something about himself that has nothing to do with his job. Ask questions, let him know you want to inquire more about him. If all else fails, ask him if he's involved with someone.

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michellekoscinski: 2 years ago

Good advice I like thy but what if you are scared to do that or you try that but it doesn't work

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alreena: 2 years ago

Maybe you might have someone else go in there and ask him at least if he is single or not. That way at least you know if you should try and talk to him or not. Don't be shy or scared because you might end up missing out on someone great because you were too scared to talk. The worst he could say is he's involved with someone else, or he's not interested. But think about if he is interested, because you don't want to miss out. If he's not the one, there are plenty others, but at least if you take the time to find out, you will know for sure.

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Nicholas23: 2 years ago

alreena gives great advice. and im going to call a "no homo" here. but if you want to let a guy know your interested, you can A:tell him up straight "im interested" without asking him out. or B: you can become a friend of his and hope that one day he decides to be a little more interested.

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lexienicoleo: 2 years ago

you should ask him out for a coffee or something...and see if he is wearing a ring then

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rtift: 2 years ago via iPhone

Flat out ask if he is in relationship with another person. If he says "yes" then say well that person is lucky and walk away.

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