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Should I let my ex and take me to formal?
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He asked me to formal and I don't know if I should say yes or no. I am scared that he will be the only guy that will ask me. If I do let him take me, everyone will think that we are back together. But we aren't back together. HELP

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Never go with a guy just because you are afraid that no one will ask you. That shows desperation, and is not fair to your date. Ask him if he wants to just go as friends and then tell people your going as friends if they ask. But don't tell him yes and then change your mind when the next boy asks you. That is being rude and unladylike...

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Good advice.
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you should do what your heart tells you if you still like him mabye you should but you can tell him yess but only as friends but its up to yourself

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thank you. this helps alot
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no problem ever wanna talk just drop me a message :P
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It's best to wait or just go alone. He seems like a "bad problem" waiting to explode all over you.

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I think you really would have to discuss your relationship with him before you say yes or no. Could he be trying to get you back? Are you even interested in getting back together? Have you two been acting like friends? Would you like to be 'just friends' or isn't that even an option? Was it a friendly parting of the ways when you split? Whatever you do, I would be clear on the reasons before I did this.

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Slow talk with about your relationship..it's kind of confusing..what does he meant by 'formal'..? is it just as a friend or what?

or maybe you should watch this to help you : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O9QV9SEeRxU

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