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I'm am so tired of this. I think I'm depressed. What do I do? Please help me.

I hate school. everything about it. the kids, the teachers, the homework, my classes. EVERYTHING. I have been bullied for about 3 years now. this year it's a lot worse. I dread school the next morning so I only get about 3 hours of sleep. I cry all the time bc I'm just always sad. I'm seeing 5 counselors & it doesn't help. I don't know what to do. I can't keep going on like this. school is my personal hell. I can't get away from it bc when I come home, my older sister constantly picks on me. I yell at her, but she just keeps going. help me! I want to do online schooling but my parents said no;( my parents are trying to help. but idk

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We had this problem with our first child. She had a horrible time in public school. Then someone suggested we put her in a boarding school. At first I did not want to send her away, but our daughter said she hated her school here and wanted to get away from everyone there.

We thought we could not afford to send her, but we found out they had scholarships to pay her way. When she started at the boarding school, we were amazed at the change in her. At the boarding school, she fit right in.

You do not have to stay in the school you are in now, there are a lot of other alternatives out there. There are even some really great troubled teen boarding schools and they can help with funding also.

Talk to your parents, you sound like you are at the end of your ropes and you need to let your parents know this. There are other school alternatives out there, but you have to look for them.

Take care and god bless
Sincerely mamatembo53

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wow... Im now following you :)
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Thanks! : D
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I think i almost cried a lil bit! Follow!
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You don't say if your folks are any help but I am guessing no. Is there anyone in your current circle who you can talk to? If you're seeing 5 counselors and none are helping, that's a real problem. Try talking to your folks or another trusted adult. Show them this post. Keep asking for help til you get what you need, please!!!

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tell a teacher that will help u feel better and try sticking up to the bullies! But sorry
I hate school too-but really there is nothing u can do about it! Unless u ask ur parents if u can quit. But the most likely answer is no!

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I think you should probably move to another better school so you dont deal with this but please dont quit school because is going to change you future dramatically but try to talk to your parents or your school counselors :)

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You need more consultancy. A therapist, your parents or another family member would help. Go to your school principal or even the superintendent o the district. I am sorry that you get picked on. You need to be a little more offensive. Stand up to the bullies and your sister. Good luck an I hope this helped. Your friends at Ask are always here for support!:)

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live your life dont let it bother you

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You may want to try online schooling, its free and you learn alot more anyway. I do it and its great! When you go on field trips, people accept you for who you are. Its a great experience!!! If you dont mind me asking, why do they bully you? I feel so bad that there is only so much I can do. Good luck, Keep Your Head Up!! :)
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I'm not sure why. I want to do online school, my parents said no. ;(
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Did you tell them your situation? You may need to prove your responsible enough to be able to do your own work and not just lolly gag. Also make sure to mention that they would not need to teach u anything, there are certified teachers for that. If you want I can give you a few links to some great online schools so your parents can look into it, if you think that they may reconsider it at all
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Why don't you tell your mom, maybe if she understands you can transfer to a different school. try to get involved in extracurricular activities so you'll make new friends. The good part about this is that it shows how strong you are for putting up with this. Ignore the bullies, that's what I do. Try telling a teacher, and try to tease you sister back. Haha. I'm sorry your putting up with this. Please dont get depressed. I hope I helped!

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Tell your parents. Ask to switch schools. That's just terrible. I've been bullied before. It lasted 5yrs. Kindergarten all the way to 4th grade. My mom and dad told me to ignore them. No i didn't change schools after. I stayed and let haters hate me for my shortness and little voice. They'll get tired of it eventually. But if it bothers you this much you should talk to someone. Bullying is a crime. Don't show weakness to them. If your in middle school or highschool tell them to grow up. It's ridiculous. In Tampa,the middle/high schools I went to no one was bullying anyone (except for the boys they bullied each other) im so mad over this I don't even know what to type >:/

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go to another state.or country and start over. Or beat the crap out of em. I was never bullied in my life, some tried but i showed em that they cant do that to me. For me its just a matter of understanding and how to handle the situation. If you let them bully you and let them think they can get away with it, they will do it to you again and people will see how vulnerable you are. You just gotta act tough and stand up for yourself. Dont know if this works for ya, but it sure does for me. I feel sorry for you coz nobody deserves to be tormented like that. RAGGGE! XD

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Like she can move to another state or country..
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Try to ignore it. I know it can be hard, but that's all i have to say. If you stop reacting to what they do, and act as if they aren't even talking, then hopefully they'll get the message and stop. Whatever you do, please don't resort to suicide. I've seen some people like this with problems like these where school was torture and home life was terrible, and these kids are no longer here. Just keep moving forward and some good karma will eventually roll your way.

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Dude don't worry bout dem haterz man life is just full of b****es but remember its those haterz that will make u famous one day so if u get depressed live your life. Dude trust me I speak from personal experience I used to be bullied to but its because of dem why now I'm like known in my school cause u know I like don't care but I do I like became better at whatever I wasn't good at back then u know...I don't know (idk how to explain it) but just don't worry kay.... :)

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Im sorry I have the same problem. I hate school the popular people laugh at me, make fun of me, I just switche schools and Im not really making any friends. Switching schools doesnt helo lemme tell ya that! I have brothers they constantly annoy me and hate me its PURE CRAP! Your a beautiful girl dont let people bring your down your special and you'll show the jerks when you make it big! Good luck on your dreams them herks make ya stronger! <3 I always say:
The wall infront of me is to keep the ones who bring me down out but to let those who care enough about me tear it down. Good Luck! Plus your not alone! I cry so much over everything. I worry so much I cant sleep I shake and freak out all the time and im super shy. But that will never stop me at doing what I love!

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check the email i sent to you girlyy12...let me help...please i'm here for you bud

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wow why would someone bully someone as beautiful as you like srsly i want answers

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Ha true that thats what I said...why aren't the bullies on ask.com so i can say some stuff to them?
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yea i dont see how someone so gorgeous could be bullied everyday!!!!!!

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I used to be harassed and bullied.. I just moved on to another school. I go to a private school now. And honestly there is a very big difference!! Talk to them about a private school and make sure to tell them (your parenrs)your getting depressed. Because if they neglect that it's not okay.

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