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I know this sounds lame, but should I text him?

I met him at NCs middleschool state wrestling tournament (my sister wrestles.. She made 6th place btw). (him and I are freshmen) He seemed like a guy who never talked to a girl before. He was nervous, didn't know what to say, but seemed interested. He asked for my number before he left.
Anyway, we texted a bit yesterday. He was a little boring, but I figure it was from shyness. But I don't know. He made one word replies. When I asked if he was tired and if I needed to let him go, he still wanted to text. Is he boring or just shy?
Last night he said good night and that he'd text me tomorrow. It's 8:40 and he hasn't text yet. I wanna talk to him to see if I can like him, to get him to talk more. Should I text him? Or wait?

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It could be that he's shy and doesn't feel comfortable around you or any girls yet. Just give him a chance and i think if you stop texting him altogether just to see whether he is interested or not, he'll probably take it as a hint that your not interested and not bother.
Maybe, wait and if he doesn't text you in the next hour you should text him.

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I'd wait. He seems like he doesn't care that much so maybe if you stop caring a little he'll start caring more

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If girls text first guys will think she is interested. If she doesn't text back she isn't into the person. If you might be interested in him text him and just stop responding if you decide you don't like him.

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Thank you. Do you think he is shy or boring? Around the other wrestlers, he talked and smiled and laughed. (I approached him to talk) he sees nervous. He asked me questions and replied and stuff. He was smiling and stuff, and asked for my number. But he is boring. When I asked if he wanted to text tomorrow instead he said he kept wanting to talk. He's never had a girlfriend and I don't think he's had a conversation with a girl because his parents are really baptist. Do you think he's just nervous?
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I'm a pretty shy guy too so I can relate to how he feels. I obviously have never met him, but it sounds like he is just shy. He probably likes you at least a little or he wouldn't want your number. If you give him a chance and let him start to trust you and be more comfortable talking to you then he will probable open up and he might not seem as boring. Most shy people (myself included) can easily seem boring on the outside but are interesting and fun when talking to friends. It may take a little while but I would give him a chance and see what he is like once you know each other better.
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I'd text him back, but not something that needs being replied to. Something like "I hope you had a good day!" or goodnight or something sweet like that. Just a little something to let him know you were thinking of him and are open to talk. If he cares, he'll text you back as soon as he sees it.

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