I have "A list" on okcupid. Why don't all of my messages get checked as having been read, when I know they have?
There are "message read" notification check marks, which come with A list only, next to most of my sent messages under my "sent message" tab. However, some do not have the check mark, even though I know they have been read. I know this because the guy would have to have read the unchecked messages from me in order to send a reply that makes sense, which they do. This can happen with messages sent to the same reader! I don't get it. Help?