Tell him, if he doesn't want a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, you have to move on, because you want a boyfriend. If he wants to be friends, fine, but he has to take a back seat, while you find a guy for yourself. Tell him this if you want him to either commit to you, or not. This will move things along. Life is too short to be without the love and affection you deserve. If he says "no," cry if you have too, get over him, and find a new crush or actual boyfriend. You'll find one all right, if you really want one. Guaranteed!