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what do you do about a man that always wants to break up with you because of something petty ?

petty like so much as a future with him or a disagreement period im so confused someone please help me idk should I stay and fight or just let him go and move on with life?

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Drop him like a hot rock. It sounds like he's keeping you insecure just to torment you. He's toying with you as if you don't have feelings of your own. Dump him and go date a man who behaves like an adult.

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Bingo!
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Define petty. If it were because you didn't get the right milk, then I can see an abusive relationship in the future. But if it were because you or him were lying about something extremely important than talk it out, and if it is too much then let him go. If he is threatening to always break up or always WANTS to break up then the message is clear: the relationship has come to an end. He wants "out".

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Break

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There are two scenarios:
It takes to stand in front of someone and tell the truth. For most relationships,the truth is as simple as "You are not the one." or "I don't love you." But not all people have the guts to say that so they put on some sort of scheme to break up.
On the other hand, some people just like drama. Which means they like to build their identities based on their own misfortunes and miseries. Walking on the thin line between relationship and break up, is just typical of these kind of people.
You'll be the judge which one he is. Oh, and there is a chance that he is both, then just run.

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I don't think that's the sort of man your planning to marry and have a happy loving family with someone who makes you feel insecure... Let him go, take time out for yourself and move on. It's easier said than done but you'll be glad you left in the end.

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That's right!
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Dump him first.

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Right!
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Ummm, easy doll. Break free.

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Indeed!
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oui si yes ja po bai da oo ano jes jah kylla vai
repons lan se wi and any other way to say yes!!!!
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Kick him out. Or the opposite.

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Let him break up with you. Now you don't have to worry about his Criticism over every little thing anymore! FREEDOM!! Besides, if he's that critical over little stuff NOW, How does he react when a major problem comes up? Sounds like this guy is wound up WAY too tight!! And pretty soon his criticism will lead to emotional abuse! You're better off without him. Go be free and go places on a whim wihout permission! There are better men for you out there.

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Run for the exits and don't look back.

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If you can't stay together when your just dating, your not gonna make it when it gets really hard, move on.

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You have two choices (yep only two):

1. Stay, remain his doormat. Let him treat you like garbage. If you choose to stay with a "man" like this, it will really be difficult to feel any sympathy for you. Yeah but you "love" him. No you don't....and you love yourself even less.

2. Leave him. It is better to be alone and have respect for yourself than to let someone treat you like garbage. You do NOT need a man to be happy. A real "man" does not treat their partner like this. When you learn to respect yourself, you will be happy.

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She should dump him and get a dog.
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A dog will love you unconditionally.......they are the best.....
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Using the threat of break-up for disagreements is petty and immature.
Give him what he threatens and live a life without threats.

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Exactly! Star. :)
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Dont let him come back! Tell him its over for good and find you a new man!

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If someone is arguing about everything they just like to argue, usually they are insecure and need to think they are right all the time because it feeds their ego. That is a huge job taking care of someone else's ego on top of all the other things most females end up taking care of in life, so you need to decide if tiptoeing around someone else's quirky personality ever minute is something you want to do. They rarely take care of you because they are so needy feeding their own issues.

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Stop and talk to him! Remember this petty reason may be the result of distrust and dishonesty from things in the past or even present? Don't ever give up without a fight life's too darn short to pass on what may be your soulmate

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..........yes.
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watch f.r.i.e.n.d.s and realize that he is better than chandler bing

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You leave him. You deserve better. He is abusing your good nature by threatening you.

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Let him go!

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