Really people? Absolutely not! If you are both understanding and mature about the fact that you like each other then go for it! If it doesn't work out then o well, but trust me you don't want to lie your life wondering if she was the right one for you.
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Last edited at 8:33PM on 12/25/2011
Yes it will wreck your friendship but who cares you don't like her. Get her jealous by getting someone else in her face. Get someone hot and easy to make her jealous. Your friendship will wreck anyway so do this. YOUR WELCOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It all depends. Tell her you like her too, but you have been friends so long, you don't want to ruin what you have. Tell her that no matter what happens, you want to stay friends, and besides, if you're already friends, it should be easier to stay in a relationship. If you both are ready for the relationship, then make a pact, saying whether you break up or not, you will stay friends. Also, I suggest making sure this isn't a misunderstanding, after all, rather safe then sorry. Hope I helped!
it all depends on how strong your friendship is and honestly how mature the both of you are i once dated a friend and it just didnt work out so we sat down and honestly told each other that we are better off as friends and if we continue down this road of staying with each other just cause we are scared of breaking up then we will grow to resent each other and our friendship will be ruined beyond repair and id rather have her as my best friend then not in my life at all at first this may hurt her but she will see that it is the right choice ...... if she flips says f-off and we are no longer friends then honestly your two's friendship ment less to her then it did to you and it is not worth your time.... just remember to give her some time
The same thing happened to me. I fell in love with my best friends. Only natural as you get older. I thought he was the one but i was stupid i was only 13. We lasted like 2 weeks but instead of making it awkward i talked to him. And were best now and will always b. I dated another kid for like 5 days it was pretty bad but now hes like my brother all because when it stared to become awkward i talked to him. My opinion is ask her out and if she say yes great if she says yes forget about but dont forget about her. Shes ur friend u should b able to talk to her if u cant shes really not a friend
Here's some advice: It's your choice. If you rather kiss the girl of your dreams, or maybe stay friend's forever, your choice.. Just know that if you become GF and BF, you'll never call each other "Buddies" or pals. And maybe if you don't get her quick enough, before you know it, she'll be marrying another dweeb! My point is-it's your life. Not mine. Don't ask us, go ask your heart. :)
happened to me and my friend. He wanted to stay friends, so we did. but I guess its what u want because we are still friends today, but i think we would have still been friends if we went out, and broke up. i agree with cellceus12 and BlueDragon321... your choice.