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Why does my boyfriend always assume i am cheating on him if i don't reply to his text right away?

he always thinks i am cheating on him, which im not! and i dont get if he tells me he loves me, then why would he assume i am cheating on him??

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He's obviously insecure, and he feels like he doesn't deserve someone like you. That means you're someone incredible and special. If you can put up with it and a temporary need of yours to go above and beyond what is normal to reassure him that he's the only one, it will pass. Many wouldn't put up with it, so don't feel too bad if you're unable.

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Aww thanks (; i like ur answer alot
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He is insecure and immature. Try to sit down and clarify to him that you are being entirely faithful and if he does not listen, then maybe there's something he's not telling you.

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He's insecure. This won't stop.

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Tell him the truth, you keep your phone in your purse and sometimes you don't hear it.

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Oh i've tried. Either its in my purse or im asleep!! He like thinks he controls
My life
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Well then tell him you don't like being treated that way and ditch his azz. There are 3.5 billions males on the planet, enjoy your freedom to date.
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Cuz when he don't answer you is when he's cheating! He's telling on himself due to his guilty conscience. Most cheaters accuse their other of cheating because they identify what they see common when they're doing wrong

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Good point.
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very good point my first wife did the same thing, I was not but she was and went around accusing me with my family and friends.
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Never jump to the conclusion that things must be worse than they'd otherwise seem. Pessimism such as this tends to create for itself the eventuality you're trying to avoid.
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I'm optimistic that he's cheating by the sounds of it!
I am a glass half full person!
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I have to agree with all the above he's insecure, most likely it will not stop. My sister was with a guy that when the bagger at the grocery store said hello he wanted to know how she knew him. if he does not fix his attitude ASAP get out while you can.

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Ok thanks (;
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he feeling bossy

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Normally the one that is accusing is the one doing. So maybe you need to take a look at what he is doing. Also it could very well be insecurity.

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