I believe that I'm FTM and my aunt told me today that its not possible. What should I do?
I came out to my two aunts, my three uncles, my great uncle, and he told my grandma. I've also told my grandpa's 3rd and current wife. they've all been very supportive. but yesterday grandpa's wife (Miss C) had taken me shopping and I kept trying to tell her that I didn't want to shop for girly things and she dragged me to a Stein Mart. there, we bought high heels, flats, and just over all shoes that girls I know would kill me to have them. I honestly didn't feel comfortable in any of them, and I acted for her. my Aunt S got me high heels for Christmas as well, before she knew. when I told my Aunt C, she had pulled me aside today to talk about me trans* thoughts and what she thought of it for real. She had basically told me that the music that I listened to and the shoes I had picked didn't fit for what I was going for. I tried to tell her that it was mostly for Cosplay and not for every day wear or anything and I didn't want to hurt Miss C's feelings. Aunt C has told me that I should try to "experiment" with the transgendered thing and try to see if it's perfectly right. She used to baby sit me back when she was 7. So she claimed she "knew me" and this wasn't me. It really hurt to hear this, but then, she works with people that are FTM and...she said im kind of like them, but I'm not at the same time. I don't know. I guess I'm just asking for help and support?