Now, come on, let's be fair about this. Look at your picture. You are attractive, in the sexual sense - what your appearance is saying is "if you say the right words and dance the right dance, I'll let you sleep with me". So, naturally, the thing men want to follow up on that. Then later, maybe, if they want more, they'll stick around for love - not very likely though.
Your appearance doesn't say to me, "come and love me", it says, "Come and seduce me".
If you want apples, it's no good asking for oranges.