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What can I say to my boyfriend's ex girlfriend who won't leave him alone!?

My boyfriend's ex girlfriend broke up with him after three months of their relationship and now she texts him all the time and even asked to hangout with him alone (he didnt go). How can I deal with this without sounding too rude, it's really bothering me and shes being a little too friendly... should i text her and tell her to back off? how? Help and advice please!

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It is not your place to say anything to her. If your boyfriend is allowing it, with the knowledge that it bothers you...well you don't have a very considerate boyfriend...maybe not even a real boyfriend.

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Exactly. I like your straight to the point answers.
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Talk to him. Ask him to talk to her, it may not be best for you to approach her if it gets worse you may need to approach her about it, GOOD LUCK!!!

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Because it may be hard to handle, but they are probs still friends

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Nothing. If he's not willing to tell her he's not interested in her nothing you say to him will make any difference. And don't act jealous. I would say, not to play mind games, but if it happens again, go hang out with your friends. Male friends too. If its really over between them on his part he'll always be honest with you about her. Men can be wimps sometimes. ;)

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Ask him if they're friends and see what's going on between the two and if he doesn't want anything to do with her, confront her. Tell her he's not interested. Don't worry about rudeness, she's being rude by not respecting you and your privacy.

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I know that they are kinda friends. And i'm very tempted to text her and tell her that im uncomfortable with her texting him all the time cause i do know her and we go to the same school. i just dont want to come off as a bitch.
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It sounds like she feels she made a mistake in letting him go. He needs to take some action about his relationship with one of the 2 of you.
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Just talk to him about it and tell him your uncomfortable with it. That's all you can really do. If it were me, I'd most definitely say something but then again, I'm not worried about being a bitch XD But I understand from your point of view also. I hope it all works out :)
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okay thank you! :)
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Talk to him about it

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text her and tell her to back off hes your boyfriend

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What should i say to her? without looking like a bitch.
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Say back off he's my boyfriend now not yours
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my problem is that i dont want people thinking that im a bitch. honestly i hate her, but she acts lie the sweetest girl ever and she isnt. she trys to pull the whole im just being freidns thing too, but she texts him all the time and shes very flirty. should i just bbm her "back off"?
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If she will not stop, your relationship is doomed to irritation and suspicion.

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Be like " bitch. Back off my boyfriend!". Then hit her in her face

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he is your boyfriend now so say back off and tell her "my boyfriend and you broke up for a reason, not to keep texting" hope this helps!

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Tell her she's not good enough for him and that your dating him now

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Write her a note that says, '' roses are red, violets are blue, hes for me, not for u, by a chance, u take my place, i'll take my fist and smash ur face. Lol jk. Just say nothing.

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Tell her to put herself in your shoes. I bet she would not like the situation if it were reversed.

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Kick her as$ and let him watch lol

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tell her you are bothered by this and ask him if he could tell her to back off a bit

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my boyfriend ex girlfriend send me a message saying " how could it be as a replacement????????hahahaahhahahahaahhahahaa " isn't it irritating ?.. can u help me answer this ?..

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