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How to mend a broken heart?

i've been hurt many times before, but this time seemed to push me over the edge and put that final crack to where my heart is finally broken. what on earth can i do?

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Oh, hon, I'm so sorry that your heart was broken... :(

People have been looking for the answer to that for a million years. It's never easy, no matter what you do.

What I do is: be with friends who accept that my pain is real and don't just tell me to get over it. When I cry, I let my tears honor the time, commitment and affection I gave to the other person. No tears are ever wasted because they honor what you gave. Then I want you to know that one day, you will look up and someone will be looking back into your eyes and see you for the precious person that you are.

You are precious, because you can be loved and love in return. Your eyes can look into another's. You can express affection. You can reach your fingertips out to meet another's. And your grief, as long as it lasts, honors these things about you.

I also eat ice cream. My girl friends say vanilla, but chocolate is the most comforting, in my opinion.

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Get a surgeon to sew it up. Ha ha. Do something distracting and focusing. Find a new hobby. Stop dating stupid guys. Laugh at memes or something. Just don't dwell on it.

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Buy a new one

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Dang I'd say just know you deserve better and it's out there, don't let days slide by being sad in life when we need to be grateful and know relationships shouldn't make or break our worlds, just add to them in a positive way. Just keep your head up and look forward to the future without rushing into it.

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sliceoflife
Tell me how to do that-you never talk
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I gave you my email twice sol
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Never saw it
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Find A New Man Girl !Yhuu Become The Player:)
& find Somethinqq to Distract Yhuu .

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Find Someone Else Who Can Fix Your Heart, & Make It Better Than The Last(: .

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Let time do its job. Thas about all you can do

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Really find yourself without that person. Take comfort in friends and family. Really love yourself and know what it is you want. And dont settle for less than you deserve. If you can do all that, I promise you love will find you. Listen to the song, "Love Song" by Tesla Keep your chin up too. Goodluck.

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Like what an anonymous person said: There is always to things in us; two legs, two eyes, two arms, two ears, two feet. But you only have one heart. The other is out there, waiting for you to find it.
(I'm from Alaska too!)

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Use Wat broke it to repair it just use the right instrument

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Be patient and dont look for love it will find you

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That's easy. Get a surgeon who for some reason knows how to sow. And have him sow it up for you. (on morphine might I add) lol

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Dont focus on today...because even though you cant imagine it, there is somebody for "you". Someone BETTER. Somebody that was made especially for you :) And when you meet that person...you will prob forget all about "right now".

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Find God.

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Time and try to do things that make you happy

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bleed it out dig deeper just to throw it away meaning go deep in your heart and yank out your pain- linkin park

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Well, you can try again. Everyone gets there heart broken time and time again. But, I think it would be good for you to take a break and enjoy life a little, then take a crack at finding a new guy.

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I myself have been through this. I asked the same question and also wonder why me? I dn't know what to tell you bc life has yet to answer Why.

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You have asked this question 4 months ago, it is exactly when me and my gf broke up ... more than 110 days are gone now and Im in such a painful PAIN ... and I know exactly what you feel .. the most painful part is remembering how much you sacrifice and give feelings, time, effort to people who dont deserve ...

I have been advised to wait for a while (6 months +) ..then look for someone else ... its such a killing feeling especially when you go to bed alone or wake up alone!

... life seems to be tasteless when you break up with someone you LOVE ... but sometimes reading about religion helps! ...

I have been listening to religious lectures about life and why God takes things from you ... maybe he has something better for you ... Im sure both of us will find someone better ... I know you might not like my suggestion but read in Islam about divorce/break up and see why God makes this and listening or reading to the explanation of Islam makes sense to me and

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