How do parents with children from previous marriages and one child together agree on parenting/discipline?
Me & my husband have a child each from previous marriages and now just had a new baby. We have already had disagreements on parenting/discipline. Me, if a child does something intentionally wrong there should be a punishment (time out, grounding, etc.) on the other hand my husband believes if its already done why say anything about it. Isent that teaching your children theres no consiquences for their actions? Also, I believe in teaching your children morals and manors. He believes in whatever makes them happy. And, I dont believe children should be cursing, his child does. How can we come to a middle ground and be a happy family that can agree on things and make it fair for all the kids. Also, how do you just change the way they have been brought up so far. For example, if one child has been aloud to cuse and say bad words and the other hasnt. how do u make it far for all now that the families have became one. This whole issue has been the only problem me and my husband has really had that we dont agree on. He also believe if $20 is all that you have to your name and your kid wants another PS3 game, he should get it. Regardless if you may really need it later.