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If there's a uncle i like and his marry with my aunt and i text him everyday is that good or bad

im only 15 and he is 27

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0_0 he's a 27 year old married man. You text him everyday. And oh yeah- he's your UNCLE?? dear lord.
You need to stop texting him and stop thinking about it. don't indulge those thoughts, find someone else.

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*I still hear those banjos-- they removed my snarky answer;)
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Yes, they do that a lot.
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What do you mean by like?

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Well I'm officially disturbed!

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that's really bad

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if you mean like, as in having romantic feelings, then i would say it is bad. he's technically your family now.

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And what's the solution genius? Your answer isn't very helpful.
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Bad

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If you like someone that's related to you, that is kinda weird. In older times people did that like for kingdoms and stuff, but not now-a-day's.

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Bad!!!!

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That's terrible

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Um, its kind of strange. I dont really think thats a good thing to like ur uncle, Sorry.

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the way you further described it as being friendly chat sounds innocent enough but something is rotten in Denmark and not normal and isnt ever going be and you know more than we do exactly what is going on . but what ever it is it isnt right and can develope into something more unhealthy than it already is and i didnt check out your profile like i usually do before answering and commenting - as far as i know you might be a boy and this could be worst or better .YES that is VERY Bad he is Married - He Is a Man - You Are a Child and He Wants to Comment Adultery and Child Molestation and You Need to Stop All That Shenanigans to say the least ! And He is your Uncle and She is Your Aun t and You Should Really Tell Your Parents or Better yet Ask this to them and then tell .

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k he is my uncle because he is married with moms sister but i really love him but i know its bad but when we text its nothing bad its just how u been nd wat u doin nd stuff like that
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and i still dont know if you are a boy or girl and you are feeling uncomforable about it or you wouldnt have Asked ?/ and You say you REALLY love him what does this mean ? what kind of love ?
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im a girl :) and im mean like love in the definiton of love
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LIKEi said he is a PERVERT and ONLY wants to use you and abuse you and you need to stop this NOW and tell your Parents and let them tell your Aunt . homeboy aint what you think that he is = Please Behave and take care of yourself and stay away from drugs and perverts and anyone else that will harm you .
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Kk thank u very helpful thanks for the advice
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anytime and every time my friend and be very careful .
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Alva. It's sad when we can see the Mack truck barreling down the road at 100 mph, but they can't.
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Aint that True and the Truth and a Crying Shame Though I Did dawn the Truth and show Some Light To Her and She Did See the Light and Maybe And Just Maybe she will Go to the light and Follow it and maybe Uncle will come out of the darkness and Quit Actting in Dark and Deviant ways .! We Can Only Hope And Pray !
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That is the Problem with People in General These days They in Generally Dont have a Clue and they have their head stuck so far up their backside that they cannot see the light to THINK or to think to Act Right and they Need to pull their heads Out of Their &sses and Get the Fog that is in and about their head get it out and get it gone and clear the &hit out of their eyes so that they can See The Light to Think and Act Right ! Can I Get Some Amens ?? !
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I would say that is VERY BAD! Stop texting him you're old enough to know better

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He's your uncle?!? That's bad.

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This is very bad and improper for 3 reasons. First, he is 27 and you're a minor. You two should not even text at all. Text your aunt if you have anything to say to him- that is the proper way. Second reason- He is your Uncle, a relative by marriage. He is very much married. Third & probably the worst, you 2 are frequently texting without your aunt's knowledge. This is not right and you know it. This frequent texting is the beginning of a relationship that could HURT you, your aunt and could send her husband to jail. Besides, your dad might hurt him if he finds out. If your dad injures him, your dad could be jailed, thus hurting more people. I hope you understand the possible ill effects of your actions. Make sure you are never alone in a house with just the 2 of you because I have a feeling he can't be trusted.

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Right on!
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AGREED ! :~} good answer
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Mm sounds wrong and he can get into serious problems

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This is very bad, leave the uncle alone if I were you. If this continues he could go to jail and cause a whole lot of family issues that are very tiring. To answer your question, yes it is bad.

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Cassy. I understand the attraction to an older man. This situation is not right for you because nothing good can come out of it. Texting your uncle every day isn't necessary, normal or moral. He is someone else's husband and in your family. Why don't you just go out and buy some c4 explosives? This is a bomb waiting to go off and devastate your family. Though you are the younger, you need to be the wiser.

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What the heck is wrong with these kids?
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totally agree
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Argh! Can't even relate....texted my married uncle always, and regularly asked him to give my aunt a hug from me....never EVER thought of loving him in any way other than that of a favorite niece...his brother's daughter...

And even if he weren't my uncle, he was MARRIED! that would've ruled it out!
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Tony. Heartbreaking, actually.
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Um, yeah that's quite disturbing. You need to get your head on straight and get it through your brain that this man is your AUNT'S HUSBAND!

*Jer-RY! Jer-RY! Jer-RY!*

Joanie said: *This is a bomb waiting to go off and devastate your family.* Read that over and over again until it sinks in.

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Outside of the fact that he is your relative, he is another woman's husband! That's always a no-no! The fact that he is Also a relation makes it even worse. I suspect you knew this anyway--just hoping to find a little justification so u didn't have to stop texting him?
Leave him alone until your thoughts toward him are just purely "niecely" type thoughts :)

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Well if you mean as in like as romantic feeling yes that's awuful. Or if you mean as being related as an uncle as love/like as relative like your parents that not that bad no! :)

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I'm going to say this straight out and say BAD. don't do it sweetie, he'll one day leave you in the dust as he walks away...i know its not what you want to hear but still..... sorry...

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