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How to get your boyfriend back after he broke up with you in a long distance relationship?

were dating for almost 7 months, 6 of them at a distance, he said he couldn't handle the relationship anymore and wanted to be alone and focus on school

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if its long distance hes most likely not getting any from you and he probably would stay with you if you were closer but you can only go so long without sex its most likely nothing personal but the school thing is crap the time normally on dates is all focused on school so there's no reason why he shouldnt be able to focus on you and school

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Long distance relationships are tough. He is being honest with you, when he tells you, he wants to focus on school. It doesn't sound like, he wants to date anyone and is telling you it's over. It will be hard at first, but you have to move on. Getting him back will be difficult.

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Sorry to say he told you your answer.
Time to find someone even better.
Locally this time

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I had a few ldr's. The best thing you have to realize is that if he dumped you, then he wasn't worth waiting for. Cheer yourself up and explore new people.

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yea find somone closer long distance relationships dont work mabie ask to be friends until after school cause school is more important then any girl/boy friend but once you both graduate if your serious about each other than start it up again and move closer to one another
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Give it up. He's gone

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I'm sorry sweetie. I've been try that. If you really love him and can't be without him just talk to him and be yourself. Try to see him. Met him half way but give him his space for a little before jumping into the relationship talk. Just be his friend and show him who you really are. Good luck. Sorry if that didn't help.

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Let him go and be glad he did it, he apparently has plans or wants more than you can give .to be with someone who hasn't come to u wanting this is only wanting what may not be yours u should move on and let him b unless u want to have a relationship of u chasing someone who isn't looking for the same things I'n life as it has to be to fit with his schedule

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