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My girlfriend just started talking to her ex again why?

bc he called her the other day to get a full closure i guess and now she wants to keep in touch with him which i do not understand. when you are a guy and your gf wants to keep in touch with her ex it is a no no in my opinion. tell me if you disagree please help me out here.( i agreed to letting her be friends and keep up on facebook but she totally blew up when i said i didnt want him texting her or calling her?)

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I agree they are an ex for a reason

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and i do everything for her put food in her mouth. a roof over her head . i buy everything she needs or wants. i dont understand
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Because she likes him and wants to get back with him like my ex was going out with this guy and she started cheating on him with me and stuff.

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Uhh-ohh.
That sounds like some serious business.
I totally agree with you.
You should interrogate your gf if she really wants to continue this relationship with you and see what she says.
If she's not sure and hesitates in replying, just retain your composure and give her some slack.
However, if your gf happens to have an affair behind your back, just leave her because she's obviously not thinking of you and her being together.

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oh if i ever find out she has an affair she will not like me ever again
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No, try this, I'm sure it will solve your problem. Have one of your friends " a girl" to start texting you, just to get her reaction. See if she still thinks its okay to talk to her ex. I'm sure she will most Likely blow up.

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will do
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Maybe you aren't paying attention to her or maybe she feels that he never appreciated her and wants to feel "now he knows what he gave up." I'd find out why--if she is even capable of figuring it out--and if she seems to be straying, become her new ex.

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Just have a talk with her, explain how you feel about things, and tell her she has to break off with her ex because it just makes you too uncomfortable. If she agrees, good. If she doesn't, at least you know where you stand. It's an unfortunate fact that just because you love someone doesn't mean they have to love you back. That's what makes it special when it does happen that way.

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Listen it's because she must feel a type of way thinking about something in the past that you done or anything cuz she is really confused but she might don't evan show it she need help to really understand that if a man trying to do the best and really be there for her you just need time for your self and just think about it don't feel down just do what gonna make you happy and for her to see do something big so that she could see what a man you are.

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