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How do i get out of love with someone after 4 years?

We were together for 3 and a half years but the distance after i had to move drove us to part. we still talk everyday and are kind of best friends and our relationship now is harder than ever. it's like were allowed to see other people now but we're both get too jealous and upset if the other actually does. its a nightmare. any suggestions on how i can start to care less or deal with her and i seeing other people?

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I can tell you that long distance relationships can work if you are both committed. My husband and I lived apart for 6 years prior to moving together and later getting married. As far as dating, we were both allowed to date but we always came back together. We never found anyone else who made us as happy as we did each other. With dating, if you feel like, go ahead. If not, then don't. Most people would tell you to jump back out there and get your feet wet. When you're ready to date, you will. How about going out with some girls as just friends for right now. Ask a girl out to a movie, coffee, or a bite to eat.

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Meet someone new. Works every time.

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ok well if you are in love with someone then there really isnt a way to fall out of love because if you fall out of love then you never really were in love to begin with and when you are in love you will know because they are all you think about and all you want and even if you see them everyday you get butterflies when you do i felt that way but we had got in to a fight and he left and i think about him everyday and also if you are with someone else and you wish it was them then you are in love and always will be

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stay away from her and go to some nightclub

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