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My friend spends alot of her time straightening her hair putting on makeup.She thinks she's ugly but she's really not!What should I do ?

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True beauty lies beneath the surface. Even if she wears the nicest makeup in the world that'll make her look airbrushed, and uses the most expensive straightener in the world on her hair and later it looks too good to be true, at the end of the day when the makeup gets washed off and her hair goes back to normal, that's her. All her, 100% natural. Sure she may not be the prettiest person in the world (who is?), but it's HER. A person who's willing to expose themselves naked like that should be considered beautiful cuz only 1/50 will have the guts. It shows they aren't scared of what others think, and they are just proud of who they are <----- traits which are very very rare in the world of females today.

She could be fishing for compliments like the other person said. Deep down inside, those girls know they are beautiful but they don't let that show. They just keep calling themselves fat and ugly, etc. even with makeup on and when they really aren't, to get compliments! You know how when people sometimes get so tired of that person always complaining how fat and ugly they are, when they aren't, that person goes to everything to prove em wrong? Just to shut em up? Some girls fishing for compliments, they're goal is this.

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Sit down and talk to her. Have a nice long talk. And actually mean it. Your her friend and she should know a true friend wouldn't lie to her about how she looks, she will tell her weather she looks gorgeous or like crap. I'm sure your friend is gorgeous and you tell her all the time, she may just be insecure. There's really nothing a person can do to cure that, they just grow out of it as time passes because they realize they are who they are and they'll learn to accept it. Get a lot of people to tell your friend she's pretty and mean it! I have so many friends on Facebook who always get a bunch of likes and 200+ comments on a lot of their photos from all people who call em pretty and they mean it.
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Smack some sences into her just kiding tell her shes crazy get a guy to tell her

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Thanks for the help :)
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get a guy to tell her is the best way...make sure it is a guy that is garunteed not to hurt her or take advantage of her though ok.....
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Just talk to her

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Thanks
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Let her know that she doesn't need to do all of that extra stuff to look beautiful. she has natural beauty.

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jdarnell05

Take a pic of her and show it to her, she'll get the picture lol

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lol
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She may just be fishing for compliments. Some people say they're ugly or fat or stupid just so someone will tell them they're pretty, skinny, and smart. I'm not saying that's what your friend is doing, but it could be. Lots of girls think they're ugly and that makeup fixes it. You may just have to let her be. If she believes she is beautiful with her hair done up and makeup on than tell her she is. There isn't anything wrong with that, it's the thinking she's ugly. That's just low self esteem. Try to build her up without telling her how pretty she is every two seconds. Good luck!

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AmyThomson

tell her to stop ironing your hair coz if your doing that for a long time your going to get split ends and plus stop puting make up for a long time and just think have much boys will say to u and laugh at you just put simple make up on like eyeliner and concealerl and foundation or primer! that what i did.just so u know tell her your never ugly your beautiful from the inside and outside no matter what.

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just so u remeber tell her she not ugly she beauitful in the inside and outside no matter what>.
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You should give me her phone number!

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Tell her you are beautiful and dint need any if that!

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I meant don't not dint. Srry
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