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What do you do if you really like a guy but he's your friends ex boyfriend?

I really like him and he seems to really like me and my friend says she totally ok with it but it's still seems really weird to me what should I do?

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This sounds a little weird. In my opinion, I think it would be best if you stay away from him. Being your friend's ex boyfriend, it means they still like each other, even if it's not that much. This can bring conflicts between you and your friend, in case they start liking each other again.

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Talk to her about the situation

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You should go and knocked the door of his heart softly. Make him realise how much you love him or like him but do not make him know directly.

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She has like a really weird reaction to you guys going out you got a dump up with him because you know she still likes him and she is getting mad

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It depends a lot on everything, me & one of my best friends, i ended up dating her ex but i dint even know they went out, i met him a year after they dated & they only went out for 2 weeks, i found out she was sprung over him when they went out, she had told me it was okay, i found out he was her ex til after i started liking him, I've been with him for 3 years now but half a year after we started going out things got too weird & she stopped talking to me completely. so id say it depends... most likely things will get weird though, but if you do go out with him then just make sure to not go to her for advice when you guys have relationship issues.

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Talk to your best friend first! Ask her if she's ok with it and if she is then ok.. But if she even shows a little bit of hesitation you don't.
Friendship is more important than any guy.

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she said she was ok with it i think u should date him im dating my friends ex and shes dating my ex and we have no problems with that

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Stay away from him. Even if you asked her how she felt about it, and she said it was perfectly okay and told you to go for it, there is a 95% chance that she isn't okay with it, and that she is just trying to be a good friend to you by making you happy. So my advice is, if she is really your friend, which means you care about her, then forget about him. Nobody would do that to someone they cared about. Now it would be a different story if 15 years ago your friend dated the guy for 1 week. But it sounds like that isn't the case. If you don't want to lose you're friend then I suggest you be a good friend and protect her heart instead of breaking it. Because it sounds like that is what she is doing for you. And remember "what goes around, comes around." Do the right thing. Be a good person and friend. The wrong decision could forever ruin a friendship that might have lasted a lifetime.

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Tread very carefully! Your friend may be testing your loyalty! The rule is: Never and I mean never ever date a friends ex. Trust me I seen friendships end over this!

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I'm the friend, like I said go for it! You see me and him be mean to each other like a brother and sister. No worries and I tension ally make it weird for you(;

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Go with your heart, hopefully your friend will understand if not then maybe that's not your real friend. She maybe a little upset for a while but she'll come around.

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