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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

i'm a typical 16 year old girl and i need tips on how to get my ex boyfriend back

my ex boyfriend and i dated for 2 months and broke up about 3 or 4 months ago. he is thinking about a second chance. i said yes i wanna tri again.. he still hasent descided.. its been 2 weeks or so. i really like him. he invited me to his bonfire. he had me sit right behind him in his 4 wheeler and he said "put ur hands in my pockets" so i did and i put my head behind his back to block the wind. and he was always near me. and if i tried to walk away from him he would pull me back towards him.. i dont know what to do to get him back. what do i say and do to him to get him back?

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shinypate1: 1 year ago via iPhone

You only can provide space in your heart and time in your calendar. He has to supply the will to do the work of being a good boyfriend. If he won't do the work, he is not really worth having back. You can do better.
You didn't say what was the cause of the breakup; most HS romances only last 3 months on average, so it seems like about average number. If it was a good cause, have you repaired what was the cause, or is it still a problem?

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

the cause of the break up was we both felt it was getting boring.. like nothing new never happened..

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shinypate1: 1 year ago via iPhone

Bored with the relationship? Nobody does that if they are truly connecting. It is a reason to breakup but not to reconcile. And what did you do to fix it?

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

we talked about it... he thought it was boring.. i didnt.. u know i loved him. i just wish we could go back to the way things were..

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Clemence: 1 year ago

I think you should give him space to think clearly and make a decision about your relationship. In the meantime, you can hang out with him and try to establish a friendship base with him. When he is ready, he will give a definite answer.

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

what do u mean by a definite answer

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Roxie12: 1 year ago | Last edited at 11:01PM on 1/16/2012

Tell Him How You Feel! Because its Better To Say Rather Than Dying To Say!;))
Idk if the quote even makes sense.

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

like how do i tell him..? cuz i teally like him but can never get him away so its just me and him alone

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prettyboy831: 1 year ago via iPhone

Tell him you love him and give him a big hug:)

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

see alright im a 16 year old girl.. sweet. down to earth.. cute... and all country. i want a guy who is just like me... im kinda shy when it comes to this sorta stuff :)

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prettyboy831: 1 year ago via iPhone

Yeah i get you, but it sounds like he likes you too and plus guys like girls that ask them out.

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

really? alright. i take it ur a guy too.. about my age... and u like girls to ask u out..?

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prettyboy831: 1 year ago via iPhone

Yeah im 17 and yes, cant u tell by my pic that im a boy? I love girls that ask me out, it makes me feel special:)

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

i didnt look at ur pic sorry. haha. im kinda shy when it comes to this kinda stuff u kno.. arent u?

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prettyboy831: 1 year ago via iPhone

Lol its ok ha. And yeah sometimes but to be honest im not really shy.

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

well ur older then me. uve had more experience with girls.. for all i know u could be a city guy

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prettyboy831: 1 year ago via iPhone

Oh yeah:) well i kind of am a city guy haa. So you really live in a ranch?

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

yup. i have cows... horses and pigs.. :)

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prettyboy831: 1 year ago via iPhone

Thats awesome!! I wish i lived on a ranch:) lucky!

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

ha ya. its pretty awesome.. haha. so where do u live?

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prettyboy831: 1 year ago via iPhone

I live in a pretty big city in canada:) wat about you?

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

i live in washington.... by spokane

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prettyboy831: 1 year ago via iPhone

Oh i havent heard about it.:)

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My_nameisrequired: 1 year ago via iPhone

u never herd of spokane washington?

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prettyboy831: 1 year ago via iPhone

Nope i havent. Is it in the outskirts of the city?

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xRaDiiCaLlx: 1 year ago

Well don't walk away

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Brooklyn19: 1 year ago

I'm with Clemence on this one, you just need to give him his space or you'll push him away.
Good luck hun!

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