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What should i do if my girlfriend HATES my ex but i still good friends with my ex?

I dont know why my girlfriend hates her. it makes me sad. : (

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Eliot07

how would YOU like it if your current girlfriend was close to her ex and they talked and laughed on the phone, etc. I don't think you would. Time to move on. You can still be friends with her, but your priority is your current girl. If you care about her you will stop the communication with the ex. Turn it around and consider if the shoe were on the other foot.

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i dont talk to my ex on the phone. we only talk a little during school.
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my ex is just a friend, why should i listen to you?
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Because you came here asking for advice. I really don't give a rip what you do.
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then you tell your girl to suck it up and quit being jealous.

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shes not jealos she just thinks my ex is crazy and she hates her cause of that. my ex doesnt hate my girlfriend though, she tries to be friends with my girl.
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Your girlfriend is feeling insecure so it's up to you to make sure she feels safe in the relationship she has with you. After all you were once in love with this woman.

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its okay. i really love my girlfriend and she knows i only like my ex as a friend now.
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I agree with guildleaf445. Your current girlfriend is going to need to learn to deal with it. Jealousy will get her nowhere, it's not like you're going to end the friendship with your ex just because your girlfriend doesn't like the fact that you two were in a relationship before she got involved with you.

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Its in a girls instinct to be jealous not Evan kidding :/ maybe sit them both down and try figure something out (:

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i know. thanks though!
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Really? Sit them both down? The current and the ex? LOL..how old are you anyway? 12?
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you talkin to me?
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It's a figure of speech I don't realy mean sit them both down I just mean talk to them both away from everyone , and yeah I'm 14 have a problem ?
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Good luck Beest with everything (:
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all you should do is just talk to her about the prob

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i have, but she still hates my ex.
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Dont talk about your ex

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i dont
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ok well would you like it if she still talked to her ex and if you wouldnt have a problem with it than talk to her but exes are mostly off limits cuz you have a lot of history its never a good thing but she kinda has the right to be upset you see everyone gets jealous its part of human nature by the way and you have to remeber that everyday a woman wakes up and deals with alot of insecurities in the world today and it wouldnt hurt if her hubby was a little more senstive to her feelings and if you want to be with her than you wont have a problem quit talking to your ex if you are not serious about the realtionship than do what you want just know that your ex is not none of your concern your gurl is make the choice

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im her first boyfriend
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It's people like you that make me glad I'm not in a relationship. Also, if a guy ever breaks up with you, just refer back to this answer. You'll soon figure out why he left.
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wow i guess you will always be ignorant dont leave a comment if you dont like it and when you cant make a relatinship work refer back
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if you really love your current girl let the x go. if both of your friends are just friends keep the x friend

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just move ON!!!!!!!!!!

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A jerk makes his girl feel jealous of other women. A man makes other women jealous of his girl. You need to make sure to let her know it's just a friendship, and if she is secure with u, it won't be a problem. If it is a problem now, she doesn't fully trust you, and you have to address that issue first. Also, know that there are limits to how involved you can be with an ex without damage to your current relationship. Make sure you are within reason, if it was the other way around, would it be okay with you?.

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