What to do when my husband still doesn't respect me or my feelings.
Been with my husband for 27 years. The last five years have been difficult. Have grown to realize my husband has never respected my place as a mother. I have never had a career but with the exception of a few yrs when kids were young, always worked a little to bring in some extra cash. Last four years have worked about 30 hours or more a week. Wont let me have access to online bank accounts & says that I dont contribute financially to the household and never have. I know I have but am tired of trying to prove to him I am worthy. Several other issues too. We have seen a marriage councilor for years but he wont budge. I can't get past this. How can I spend the rest of my life with a man who doesnt respect me or consider me his equal regardless of my "financial contribution"? My feelings dont matter to him. I love him very much & I know he loves me too, just not sure he loves me enough.
Am I a fool to stay?