Your Open Question: I ask myself all the time why does my mom hate me or resents me or why can't she just be happy for me?
This is what is going on. My mom and dad split when I was 3. And my dad won custody bc she didn't show up the first time an got busted for pot the second time. Well my dad worked out of town all the time. So I lived with my mamaw and papaw. Until I was 12 then lived wit my dad when he got remarried. So my mamaw was always my mother to me an my mom was just like my friend and I never told her that till the other day when I had finally had enough of her. She has never been happy for me and this year has been one of the best in my life. I'm 28 and I have always been on drugs(pills) for ten yrs an was abused by my husband for yrs. well I finally got away from him and found someone who has changed my life. Has supported me through it all an I have been clean for 180 days now. And my mom started a bunch of drama with my family and texted me and said so much horiable stuff a mother could ever say to a kid. She told me I quote
"U dam ***** u damn rite and im gonna stir it all up.but im ur fing mom when u wont something.if i knew what a two face ***** kid i had ud never would of gottin **** from me.u didnt do **** for me ur whole life.dont u ever talk to me again."
So that's when I told her I thought of my mamaw as my mother an her as just a friend. I jus don't understand y she does this she has never once said something like that to my sister who she raised. So y? Y can't she b happy for me?