1 year ago
Last edited at 3:55PM on 1/17/2012
I know it can be really difficult, but you should think about how much u like this guy, and is he really worth your love. If you think this is it, I think I want to spend the rest of my life with him. Then, I say you go move closer to him, but that's usually the riskier choice. Think if he would do the same thing for you? If he likes you that much, he would come to your state. Or you just like him, and that is all, and you guys didn't go that far yet, talk to him about it, and wait for a while before you decide anything that might change your life.
It depends on the distance. Saying he lives in a different state is no help, you could live in the 4 corners region & be in 4 different states in 30 secs. If you can see each other on weekends, you might be able to swing a decent relationship. If you're just playing phone tag, em-ing each other & not really having a physical relationship. It's a fun fantasy (what if) type of relationship, friendship is fine, but if you want something more-someone's going to have to move.
Long distance is difficult. You only know what someone is telling you. Not who they really are or what they are doing when you aren't around. Go out and meet people where you live and focus on your own life and you'll have a better life. Check out some singles groups in your area http://www.singlesonthego.com/kc/