1 year ago
Last edited at 6:44PM on 1/17/2012
Of course not!! You should leave him! No one deserves to get hit because of anything they do from their boyfriend get out of there and i wouldnt beat him back that can only result in him beating you more. call the police and make sure they arrest him or he could come after you with more than just his fist in your face.
Ok he might say "I love you! Blah blah blah... " it can quickly escalate into something you have no control of! I suggest you immediately notify the police and leave the relationship. If he doesn't allow you to do so, then create a well thought out plan and put it into action.
Leave! ASAP! It's not your fault. And it will get worse. Leave him, and move back home with your folks untill you can find a safe place where he won't find you. Get a restraining order if necessary to keep him away.
You don't deserve that, no one does. Get yourself out of the situation, do whatever it takes. If you don't think you can do it in your own then get a friend involved, or someone. Get him reported so he doesn't do this to other people as well. And just get far, far away from him, okay? As far as you can. You deserve someone who will treat you right, don't forget it. It is not your fault in any way. Best of luck.
Oh my god! Leave him ASAP! I was in an abusive relationship for five years and here is a news flash, he will NEVER stop. If he has done it once he will do it again. The only way he would stop was if he wanted to and got some serious help. Don't let it get as bad as it got for me, I ended up in the hospital. Things will only escalate please get out of it now before it's too late and if you ever would like someone to talk to who has been through this and understands how hard it is you can talk to me. Good luck and leave now!
Boo, it's not your fault, you should leave and tell your parents immediately. They can decide what step needs to be taken. Don't fall for his sorry BS. He's going to wish you called the police after your Dad gets a hold of him.Run. Now.
IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT! it is his problem and his anger and he shouldn't be taking it out on you! you need to leave before you get seriously injured. that is domestic violence and is against the law. go to www.loveisrespect.org to learn more about your situation really go to the website!!!!!
You do not stop him. You stop yourself by making sure that you know that a man intentionally putting is hands on you to hurt you is wrong. You then punish him by calling the police. He will be arrested. You will no longer have to have people know you as someone who has an abuser as a partner.
It is never your fault. You aren't a little child whose mother is trying to make sure you don't grab something off the stove and slaps your hand. You stop being hit by leaving the guy. Nobody has the right to hit you, or put you down, or do either and then beg you to stay. He will never change.
Don't call the cops unless he persists after you leave him. DON'T talk to him first. If he beats you he doesn't deserve the chance of you confronting him first. Don't call the cops unless he tries to force you into the relationship.
It's not your fault...and even if you love him or just like him it's not worth it. It's not fair to you or healthy...also it's not your fault...he probably will never change so instead of thinking it's you...it's not...you need to get away as soon as possible.